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Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability

2021-10-25T18:25:44Z

Cwcvillepharmacy: /* "On the 3rd day he rose again" */

{{Incomplete}}

{{quote|"Whether or not you are responding in the right way, with enough oomph, often enough, and to the right sort of person (god forbid you sexually respond to someone of the same sex, or much older than you, or... well, the list goes on) ... "|The book that started the downfall.{{cite}}}}

{{quote|"Thank you to Miriam Kaufman, Corey Silverberg and Fran Odette by the way for this wonderful how-to guide on how to have sex with retarded people"|[[Null]][[Incest| knowing what this god forsaken book eventually led too]]{{cite}}}}

[[Image:ultimate-guide-to-sex-and-disability-cover.jpg|right|thumb|200px| Abandon all hope, ye who enter here.]]

'''''The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability''''' is an educational book by Miriam Kaufman, first published in 2007. It states that it's the first complete sex guide for people who live with disabilities, pain, illness, or chronic conditions. Useful for absolutely everyone, regardless of age, gender, or sexual orientation, the book addresses a wide range of disabilities -- from chronic fatigue, back pain, and asthma to spinal cord injury, hearing and visual impairment, multiple sclerosis, and more.

Chris's first known mention of this book was on 5 [[July 2021]] in a conversation between him and [[Null]] (which was leaked on 31 July), where Chris stated:<ref name=null>[[Incest fallout chat leaks#Chris vaguely describes his relationship]]</ref>

{{quotebox|As one of my more curious followers may have found through my Amazon by now, I even recently purchased a valuable and informative book to add additional guidance.}}

He also provided a picture of the book in his lap.<ref name=null/>

At time of writing, Christorians are unaware of how Chris was made aware of this book.

==Analysis==
=== Overview ===
A few Christorians have taken it upon themselves to obtain this cursed piece of literature to see exactly how its contents could influence Chris (ie: passages taken out of context). The book overall is graphic in its language and its description of the multiple facets of sex in general. As stated elsewhere its written from a perspective of someone who has a physical disability who may find sex to be awkward or unenjoyable. It is not intended as a guide on HOW to have sex with people with disabilities.

=== "Never attribute to malice that which can be adequately explained by stupidity." ===
{{Oversized}}
There are a few choice passages in the book that when taken out of context, and with the reader failing to grasp on basic reading comprehension skills, could explain why Chris thought what he was doing was 'okay' and 'normal'.

{{quote|"Maybe if disabled people on the whole weren't so excluded from life and normal life experiences, then the devotee attraction would not seem weird at all, but rather a factor of the magical continuum of desire, or the notion that there's at least one somebody for everybody-- and hopefully, in all our cases, lots of somebodies"|<ref>Kaufman, Silverberg, Odett, ''Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability'', (Cleis Press; 2nd edition (November 28, 2007)), 101.</ref>}}

: Considering how Chris views himself as [[Autism|"disabled"]], he would naturally feel that what he is doing is okay because he has been excluded from "life and normal life experiences" and "there's at least one somebody for everyone". Therefore in his mind the book is justifying his decision and giving him a sense of entitlement that he deserves this.

{{quote|"We tend to class attractions as 'normal' and 'abnormal', and an attraction to disabled folk is firmly assigned to the 'abnormal' basket. Restrictions on who we're supposed to be attracted to seem the only 'abnormal' thing to me."|<ref>Kaufman, Silverberg, Odett, ''Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability'', (Cleis Press; 2nd edition (November 28, 2007)), 101.</ref>}}

: Chris would take this passage as the green light that justifies his sexual attraction to his mother. If there are no restrictions according to this book, why can't he have sex with his mother? However, the intention of the quote is reassure the disabled reader that his/her feelings towards someone are okay and justified, not that its okay to have sexual relationships with persons that most cultures/societies would deem as abhorrent and at very least illegal.

{{quote|"As long as the fetish doesn't involve hurting themselves, or somebody else, and is consensual, we don't think people should be quick to judge fetishes as abnormal or threatening"|<ref>Kaufman, Silverberg, Odett, ''Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability'', (Cleis Press; 2nd edition (November 28, 2007)), 138.</ref>}}

: In the context of the book as a whole, this line boils down to "don't kink shame". Everyone has their own tastes and preferences, and nobody is in a position to judge. Except when its having sex with your own mother.

{{quote|"Whether or not you are responding in the right way, with enough oomph, often enough, and to the right sort of person (god forbid you sexually respond to someone of the same sex, ''or much older than you'')"|<ref>Kaufman, Silverberg, Odett, ''Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability'', (Cleis Press; 2nd edition (November 28, 2007)), 48.</ref>}}

: This passage aged like milk, considering it aims to break the taboo of having sex with someone much older than you, and Chris initially led on about his sexual partner being "of this half of our universe", physically older than him, and worked "thoroughly and compassionately with her beforehand."

=== "On the 3rd day he rose again" ===

{{quote|"Successful spontaneity often happens as a result of careful planning. people tend to see this need for planning as a negative thing, but it is really an opportunity to expand our sexual horizons. regardless of disability it can be a good idea to plan ahead for sex"|<ref>Kaufman, Silverberg, Odett, ''Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability'', (Cleis Press; 2nd edition (November 28, 2007)), 127.</ref>}}

: This quote could have been why Chris was so [[Duck|rigid]] with doing the deed every 3 days like clockwork.

=== Christorian Opinions/Discussion ===

In the pursuit of Christory, a number of Christorians obtained a copy of this book and subjected their eyeballs to the horrid content therein. Below are their opinions on topics on the book as a whole.

* In reading the contents of this book, the author has a common theme that amounts to "in case you talking about sex with your caretaker makes them uncomfortable, fire them and get a new one who is sex-positive". It is concerting that the author implies that it is socially acceptable to discuss sexual topics with what essentially is a paid employee. Discussing sex with someone who is not specialized in the topic could be viewed as tactless at best and sexual harassment at worst. Anything that could be misconstrued as encouragement of less-than-consensual activities would be dangerous for an autistic who has a hard time understanding [[Honest content|boundaries]] and desperately wants [[sex|China]].

* For a quick summary of the general lessons that the book takes away, it emphasizes how it's important to take away taboos with people who are disabled and dependent on caregivers who want sex, and it emphasizes breaking that taboo and getting comfortable asking for help achieving orgasm. One part of the book at the beginning says that there's too much taboo about who your partner is and "god forbid it be someone much older than you". "For some people it won’t be feasible to see and touch all parts of their bodies. If you require twenty-four-hour assistance you may never have someone willing to hold a mirror to see what your clitoris looks like. You may not feel comfortable even asking for that help." "What supports will you need to have in place in case you need to deal with things that come up during your experience? You may have overwhelming feelings that you don’t know how to cope with. Do you have someone you can talk with about these strong feelings or memories? If you don’t have a friend, family member, or caregiver with whom you can hash things out, or some other way that you work through difficult things in your life..."

==As a guidebook==

Seeing the book as a "valuable and informative" resource to help guide him with his incestuous relationship with Barb, Chris seems to have misinterpreted many of the things said in it.

The primary purpose of the book is to provide assistance and advice on how to perform sexual intercourse to those with physical disabilities and chronic illnesses, who would typically have problems having sexual intercourse. Therefore the scope of the book is a sexual guide written for people '''with''' disabilities, not a guide on how to have sex with disabled people.

As a result the book itself assumes the reader can already grasp what is considered sexually taboo and what is legal, as it does not appear to touch upon such topics in depth. This evidently makes it a terrible choice for Chris, whose problems relationship and sex-wise coupled with absolutely poor decision-making and reading comprehension skills go beyond the scope of this book.

===Chris the sexpert===

Chris seems to have believed himself to be in a position to mentor people with relationship problems after reading this book. This is most notable with him attempting to provide guidance to the [[Suitress]] on her finding her "long-term" sweetheart in the college she'd attend. Having newly found power in finding justification to do [[Incest|unspeakable acts]], he felt himself to be an expert in all things regarding sex and relationships.

{{clear}}

==See also==
*[[How to Talk to Girls]]
*[[Incest]]

==External links==
*[https://www.amazon.com/Ultimate-Guide-Sex-Disability-Disabilities/dp/1573443042 The book on Amazon]

{{references}}
{{Love Quest}}

[[Category:Books]]
[[Category:Love Quest]]

Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability

2021-10-25T18:25:02Z

Cwcvillepharmacy: Citations

{{Incomplete}}

{{quote|"Whether or not you are responding in the right way, with enough oomph, often enough, and to the right sort of person (god forbid you sexually respond to someone of the same sex, or much older than you, or... well, the list goes on) ... "|The book that started the downfall.{{cite}}}}

{{quote|"Thank you to Miriam Kaufman, Corey Silverberg and Fran Odette by the way for this wonderful how-to guide on how to have sex with retarded people"|[[Null]][[Incest| knowing what this god forsaken book eventually led too]]{{cite}}}}

[[Image:ultimate-guide-to-sex-and-disability-cover.jpg|right|thumb|200px| Abandon all hope, ye who enter here.]]

'''''The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability''''' is an educational book by Miriam Kaufman, first published in 2007. It states that it's the first complete sex guide for people who live with disabilities, pain, illness, or chronic conditions. Useful for absolutely everyone, regardless of age, gender, or sexual orientation, the book addresses a wide range of disabilities -- from chronic fatigue, back pain, and asthma to spinal cord injury, hearing and visual impairment, multiple sclerosis, and more.

Chris's first known mention of this book was on 5 [[July 2021]] in a conversation between him and [[Null]] (which was leaked on 31 July), where Chris stated:<ref name=null>[[Incest fallout chat leaks#Chris vaguely describes his relationship]]</ref>

{{quotebox|As one of my more curious followers may have found through my Amazon by now, I even recently purchased a valuable and informative book to add additional guidance.}}

He also provided a picture of the book in his lap.<ref name=null/>

At time of writing, Christorians are unaware of how Chris was made aware of this book.

==Analysis==
=== Overview ===
A few Christorians have taken it upon themselves to obtain this cursed piece of literature to see exactly how its contents could influence Chris (ie: passages taken out of context). The book overall is graphic in its language and its description of the multiple facets of sex in general. As stated elsewhere its written from a perspective of someone who has a physical disability who may find sex to be awkward or unenjoyable. It is not intended as a guide on HOW to have sex with people with disabilities.

=== "Never attribute to malice that which can be adequately explained by stupidity." ===
{{Oversized}}
There are a few choice passages in the book that when taken out of context, and with the reader failing to grasp on basic reading comprehension skills, could explain why Chris thought what he was doing was 'okay' and 'normal'.

{{quote|"Maybe if disabled people on the whole weren't so excluded from life and normal life experiences, then the devotee attraction would not seem weird at all, but rather a factor of the magical continuum of desire, or the notion that there's at least one somebody for everybody-- and hopefully, in all our cases, lots of somebodies"|<ref>Kaufman, Silverberg, Odett, ''Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability'', (Cleis Press; 2nd edition (November 28, 2007)), 101.</ref>}}

: Considering how Chris views himself as [[Autism|"disabled"]], he would naturally feel that what he is doing is okay because he has been excluded from "life and normal life experiences" and "there's at least one somebody for everyone". Therefore in his mind the book is justifying his decision and giving him a sense of entitlement that he deserves this.

{{quote|"We tend to class attractions as 'normal' and 'abnormal', and an attraction to disabled folk is firmly assigned to the 'abnormal' basket. Restrictions on who we're supposed to be attracted to seem the only 'abnormal' thing to me."|<ref>Kaufman, Silverberg, Odett, ''Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability'', (Cleis Press; 2nd edition (November 28, 2007)), 101.</ref>}}

: Chris would take this passage as the green light that justifies his sexual attraction to his mother. If there are no restrictions according to this book, why can't he have sex with his mother? However, the intention of the quote is reassure the disabled reader that his/her feelings towards someone are okay and justified, not that its okay to have sexual relationships with persons that most cultures/societies would deem as abhorrent and at very least illegal.

{{quote|"As long as the fetish doesn't involve hurting themselves, or somebody else, and is consensual, we don't think people should be quick to judge fetishes as abnormal or threatening"|<ref>Kaufman, Silverberg, Odett, ''Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability'', (Cleis Press; 2nd edition (November 28, 2007)), 138.</ref>}}

: In the context of the book as a whole, this line boils down to "don't kink shame". Everyone has their own tastes and preferences, and nobody is in a position to judge. Except when its having sex with your own mother.

{{quote|"Whether or not you are responding in the right way, with enough oomph, often enough, and to the right sort of person (god forbid you sexually respond to someone of the same sex, ''or much older than you'')"|<ref>Kaufman, Silverberg, Odett, ''Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability'', (Cleis Press; 2nd edition (November 28, 2007)), 48.</ref>}}

: This passage aged like milk, considering it aims to break the taboo of having sex with someone much older than you, and Chris initially led on about his sexual partner being "of this half of our universe", physically older than him, and worked "thoroughly and compassionately with her beforehand."

=== "On the 3rd day he rose again" ===

{{quote|"Successful spontaneity often happens as a result of careful planning. people tend to see this need for planning as a negative thing, but it is really an opportunity to expand our sexual horizons. regardless of disability it can be a good idea to plan ahead for sex"|{{cite}}}}

: This quote could have been why Chris was so [[Duck|rigid]] with doing the deed every 3 days like clockwork.

=== Christorian Opinions/Discussion ===

In the pursuit of Christory, a number of Christorians obtained a copy of this book and subjected their eyeballs to the horrid content therein. Below are their opinions on topics on the book as a whole.

* In reading the contents of this book, the author has a common theme that amounts to "in case you talking about sex with your caretaker makes them uncomfortable, fire them and get a new one who is sex-positive". It is concerting that the author implies that it is socially acceptable to discuss sexual topics with what essentially is a paid employee. Discussing sex with someone who is not specialized in the topic could be viewed as tactless at best and sexual harassment at worst. Anything that could be misconstrued as encouragement of less-than-consensual activities would be dangerous for an autistic who has a hard time understanding [[Honest content|boundaries]] and desperately wants [[sex|China]].

* For a quick summary of the general lessons that the book takes away, it emphasizes how it's important to take away taboos with people who are disabled and dependent on caregivers who want sex, and it emphasizes breaking that taboo and getting comfortable asking for help achieving orgasm. One part of the book at the beginning says that there's too much taboo about who your partner is and "god forbid it be someone much older than you". "For some people it won’t be feasible to see and touch all parts of their bodies. If you require twenty-four-hour assistance you may never have someone willing to hold a mirror to see what your clitoris looks like. You may not feel comfortable even asking for that help." "What supports will you need to have in place in case you need to deal with things that come up during your experience? You may have overwhelming feelings that you don’t know how to cope with. Do you have someone you can talk with about these strong feelings or memories? If you don’t have a friend, family member, or caregiver with whom you can hash things out, or some other way that you work through difficult things in your life..."

==As a guidebook==

Seeing the book as a "valuable and informative" resource to help guide him with his incestuous relationship with Barb, Chris seems to have misinterpreted many of the things said in it.

The primary purpose of the book is to provide assistance and advice on how to perform sexual intercourse to those with physical disabilities and chronic illnesses, who would typically have problems having sexual intercourse. Therefore the scope of the book is a sexual guide written for people '''with''' disabilities, not a guide on how to have sex with disabled people.

As a result the book itself assumes the reader can already grasp what is considered sexually taboo and what is legal, as it does not appear to touch upon such topics in depth. This evidently makes it a terrible choice for Chris, whose problems relationship and sex-wise coupled with absolutely poor decision-making and reading comprehension skills go beyond the scope of this book.

===Chris the sexpert===

Chris seems to have believed himself to be in a position to mentor people with relationship problems after reading this book. This is most notable with him attempting to provide guidance to the [[Suitress]] on her finding her "long-term" sweetheart in the college she'd attend. Having newly found power in finding justification to do [[Incest|unspeakable acts]], he felt himself to be an expert in all things regarding sex and relationships.

{{clear}}

==See also==
*[[How to Talk to Girls]]
*[[Incest]]

==External links==
*[https://www.amazon.com/Ultimate-Guide-Sex-Disability-Disabilities/dp/1573443042 The book on Amazon]

{{references}}
{{Love Quest}}

[[Category:Books]]
[[Category:Love Quest]]

Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability

2021-10-25T18:22:38Z

Cwcvillepharmacy: /* "Never attribute to malice that which can be adequately explained by stupidity." */

{{Incomplete}}

{{quote|"Whether or not you are responding in the right way, with enough oomph, often enough, and to the right sort of person (god forbid you sexually respond to someone of the same sex, or much older than you, or... well, the list goes on) ... "|The book that started the downfall.{{cite}}}}

{{quote|"Thank you to Miriam Kaufman, Corey Silverberg and Fran Odette by the way for this wonderful how-to guide on how to have sex with retarded people"|[[Null]][[Incest| knowing what this god forsaken book eventually led too]]{{cite}}}}

[[Image:ultimate-guide-to-sex-and-disability-cover.jpg|right|thumb|200px| Abandon all hope, ye who enter here.]]

'''''The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability''''' is an educational book by Miriam Kaufman, first published in 2007. It states that it's the first complete sex guide for people who live with disabilities, pain, illness, or chronic conditions. Useful for absolutely everyone, regardless of age, gender, or sexual orientation, the book addresses a wide range of disabilities -- from chronic fatigue, back pain, and asthma to spinal cord injury, hearing and visual impairment, multiple sclerosis, and more.

Chris's first known mention of this book was on 5 [[July 2021]] in a conversation between him and [[Null]] (which was leaked on 31 July), where Chris stated:<ref name=null>[[Incest fallout chat leaks#Chris vaguely describes his relationship]]</ref>

{{quotebox|As one of my more curious followers may have found through my Amazon by now, I even recently purchased a valuable and informative book to add additional guidance.}}

He also provided a picture of the book in his lap.<ref name=null/>

At time of writing, Christorians are unaware of how Chris was made aware of this book.

==Analysis==
=== Overview ===
A few Christorians have taken it upon themselves to obtain this cursed piece of literature to see exactly how its contents could influence Chris (ie: passages taken out of context). The book overall is graphic in its language and its description of the multiple facets of sex in general. As stated elsewhere its written from a perspective of someone who has a physical disability who may find sex to be awkward or unenjoyable. It is not intended as a guide on HOW to have sex with people with disabilities.

=== "Never attribute to malice that which can be adequately explained by stupidity." ===
{{Oversized}}
There are a few choice passages in the book that when taken out of context, and with the reader failing to grasp on basic reading comprehension skills, could explain why Chris thought what he was doing was 'okay' and 'normal'.

{{quote|"Maybe if disabled people on the whole weren't so excluded from life and normal life experiences, then the devotee attraction would not seem weird at all, but rather a factor of the magical continuum of desire, or the notion that there's at least one somebody for everybody-- and hopefully, in all our cases, lots of somebodies"|<ref>Kaufman, Silverberg, Odett, ''Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability'', (Cleis Press; 2nd edition (November 28, 2007)), 101.</ref>}}

: Considering how Chris views himself as [[Autism|"disabled"]], he would naturally feel that what he is doing is okay because he has been excluded from "life and normal life experiences" and "there's at least one somebody for everyone". Therefore in his mind the book is justifying his decision and giving him a sense of entitlement that he deserves this.

{{quote|"We tend to class attractions as 'normal' and 'abnormal', and an attraction to disabled folk is firmly assigned to the 'abnormal' basket. Restrictions on who we're supposed to be attracted to seem the only 'abnormal' thing to me."|{{cite}}}}

: Chris would take this passage as the green light that justifies his sexual attraction to his mother. If there are no restrictions according to this book, why can't he have sex with his mother? However, the intention of the quote is reassure the disabled reader that his/her feelings towards someone are okay and justified, not that its okay to have sexual relationships with persons that most cultures/societies would deem as abhorrent and at very least illegal.

{{quote|"As long as the fetish doesn't involve hurting themselves, or somebody else, and is consensual, we don't think people should be quick to judge fetishes as abnormal or threatening"|{{cite}}}}

: In the context of the book as a whole, this line boils down to "don't kink shame". Everyone has their own tastes and preferences, and nobody is in a position to judge. Except when its having sex with your own mother.

{{quote|"Whether or not you are responding in the right way, with enough oomph, often enough, and to the right sort of person (god forbid you sexually respond to someone of the same sex, ''or much older than you'')"|{{cite}}}}

: This passage aged like milk, considering it aims to break the taboo of having sex with someone much older than you, and Chris initially led on about his sexual partner being "of this half of our universe", physically older than him, and worked "thoroughly and compassionately with her beforehand."

=== "On the 3rd day he rose again" ===

{{quote|"Successful spontaneity often happens as a result of careful planning. people tend to see this need for planning as a negative thing, but it is really an opportunity to expand our sexual horizons. regardless of disability it can be a good idea to plan ahead for sex"|{{cite}}}}

: This quote could have been why Chris was so [[Duck|rigid]] with doing the deed every 3 days like clockwork.

=== Christorian Opinions/Discussion ===

In the pursuit of Christory, a number of Christorians obtained a copy of this book and subjected their eyeballs to the horrid content therein. Below are their opinions on topics on the book as a whole.

* In reading the contents of this book, the author has a common theme that amounts to "in case you talking about sex with your caretaker makes them uncomfortable, fire them and get a new one who is sex-positive". It is concerting that the author implies that it is socially acceptable to discuss sexual topics with what essentially is a paid employee. Discussing sex with someone who is not specialized in the topic could be viewed as tactless at best and sexual harassment at worst. Anything that could be misconstrued as encouragement of less-than-consensual activities would be dangerous for an autistic who has a hard time understanding [[Honest content|boundaries]] and desperately wants [[sex|China]].

* For a quick summary of the general lessons that the book takes away, it emphasizes how it's important to take away taboos with people who are disabled and dependent on caregivers who want sex, and it emphasizes breaking that taboo and getting comfortable asking for help achieving orgasm. One part of the book at the beginning says that there's too much taboo about who your partner is and "god forbid it be someone much older than you". "For some people it won’t be feasible to see and touch all parts of their bodies. If you require twenty-four-hour assistance you may never have someone willing to hold a mirror to see what your clitoris looks like. You may not feel comfortable even asking for that help." "What supports will you need to have in place in case you need to deal with things that come up during your experience? You may have overwhelming feelings that you don’t know how to cope with. Do you have someone you can talk with about these strong feelings or memories? If you don’t have a friend, family member, or caregiver with whom you can hash things out, or some other way that you work through difficult things in your life..."

==As a guidebook==

Seeing the book as a "valuable and informative" resource to help guide him with his incestuous relationship with Barb, Chris seems to have misinterpreted many of the things said in it.

The primary purpose of the book is to provide assistance and advice on how to perform sexual intercourse to those with physical disabilities and chronic illnesses, who would typically have problems having sexual intercourse. Therefore the scope of the book is a sexual guide written for people '''with''' disabilities, not a guide on how to have sex with disabled people.

As a result the book itself assumes the reader can already grasp what is considered sexually taboo and what is legal, as it does not appear to touch upon such topics in depth. This evidently makes it a terrible choice for Chris, whose problems relationship and sex-wise coupled with absolutely poor decision-making and reading comprehension skills go beyond the scope of this book.

===Chris the sexpert===

Chris seems to have believed himself to be in a position to mentor people with relationship problems after reading this book. This is most notable with him attempting to provide guidance to the [[Suitress]] on her finding her "long-term" sweetheart in the college she'd attend. Having newly found power in finding justification to do [[Incest|unspeakable acts]], he felt himself to be an expert in all things regarding sex and relationships.

{{clear}}

==See also==
*[[How to Talk to Girls]]
*[[Incest]]

==External links==
*[https://www.amazon.com/Ultimate-Guide-Sex-Disability-Disabilities/dp/1573443042 The book on Amazon]

{{references}}
{{Love Quest}}

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Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability

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{{quote|"Whether or not you are responding in the right way, with enough oomph, often enough, and to the right sort of person (god forbid you sexually respond to someone of the same sex, or much older than you, or... well, the list goes on) ... "|The book that started the downfall.}}

[[Image:ultimate-guide-to-sex-and-disability-cover.jpg|right|thumb|200px|Abandon hope ye who enter here]]

'''''The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability''''' was written in 2007 by Miriam Kaufman. It states that it's the first complete sex guide for people who live with disabilities, pain, illness, or chronic conditions. Useful for absolutely everyone, regardless of age, gender, or sexual orientation, the book addresses a wide range of disabilities -- from chronic fatigue, back pain, and asthma to spinal cord injury, hearing and visual impairment, multiple sclerosis, and more.

Chris's first known mention of this book was on 5 [[July 2021]] in a conversation between him and [[Null]] (which was leaked on 31 July), where Chris stated:<ref>[[Incest fallout chat leaks#Chris vaguely describes his relationship]]</ref>

{{quotebox|As one of my more curious followers may have found through my Amazon by now, I even recently purchased a valuable and informative book to add additional guidance.}}

He also provided a picture of the book in his lap.<ref>[[:File:Guide to Sex and Disability.jpg]]</ref>

At time of writing, Christorians are unaware of how Chris was made aware of this book.

==Analysis==
=== Overview ===
A few Christorians have taken it upon themselves to obtain this cursed piece of literature to see exactly how its contents could influence Chris (ie: passages taken out of context). The book overall is graphic in its language and its description of the multiple facets of sex in general. As stated elsewhere its written from a perspective of someone who has a physical disability who may find sex to be awkward or unenjoyable. It is not intended as a guide on HOW to have sex with people with disabilities.

=== "Never attribute to malice that which can be adequately explained by stupidity." ===
There are a few choice passages in the book that when taken out of context, and with the reader failing to grasp on basic reading comprehension skills, could explain why Chris thought what he was doing was 'okay' and 'normal'.

{{quote|"Maybe if disabled people on the whole weren't so excluded from life and normal life experiences, then the devotee attraction would not seem weird at all, but rather a factor of the magical continuum of desire, or the notion that there's at least one somebody for everybody-- and hopefully, in all our cases, lots of somebodies"}}

: Considering how Chris views himself as [[Autism|"disabled"]], he would naturally feel that what he is doing is okay because he has been excluded from "life and normal life experiences" and "there's at least one somebody for everyone". Therefore in his mind the book is justifying his decision and giving him a sense of entitlement that he deserves this.

{{quote|"We tend to class attractions as 'normal' and 'abnormal', and an attraction to disabled folk is firmly assigned to the 'abnormal' basket. Restrictions on who we're supposed to be attracted to seem the only 'abnormal' thing to me."}}

: Chris would take this passage as the green light that justifies his sexual attraction to his mother. If there are no restrictions according to this book, why can't he have sex with his mother? However, the intention of the quote is reassure the disabled reader that his/her feelings towards someone are okay and justified, not that its okay to have sexual relationships with persons that most cultures/societies would deem as abhorrent and at very least illegal.

{{quote|"As long as the fetish doesn't involve hurting themselves, or somebody else, and is consensual, we don't think people should be quick to judge fetishes as abnormal or threatening"}}

: In the context of the book as a whole, this line boils down to "don't kink shame". Everyone has their own tastes and preferences, and nobody is in a position to judge. Except when its having sex with your own mother.

{{quote|"Whether or not you are responding in the right way, with enough oomph, often enough, and to the right sort of person (god forbid you sexually respond to someone of the same sex, ''or much older than you'')"}}

: This passage aged like milk, considering it aims to break the taboo of having sex with someone much older than you, and Chris initially led on about his sexual partner being "of this half of our universe", physically older than him, and worked "thoroughly and compassionately with her beforehand."

=== "On the 3rd day he rose again" ===

{{quote|"Successful spontaneity often happens as a result of careful planning. people tend to see this need for planning as a negative thing, but it is really an opportunity to expand our sexual horizons. regardless of disability it can be a good idea to plan ahead for sex"}}

: This quote could have been why Chris was so [[Duck|rigid]] with doing the deed every 3 days like clockwork.

=== Christorian Opinions/Discussion ===

In the pursuit of Christory, a number of Christorians obtained a copy of this book and subjected their eyeballs to the horrid content therein. Below are their opinions on topics on the book as a whole.

* In reading the contents of this book, the author has a common theme that amounts to "in case you talking about sex with people makes them uncomfortable, fire your caretaker and get a new one who is sex-positive". What is concerning here, is that the author implies that it is socially acceptable to discuss sexual topics with what essentially is a paid employee. This act, with someone who is not specialized in the topic, could be viewed as tactless at best and sexual harassment at worst. Therefore one must view this book through the lens of being written by someone who encourages socially unacceptable behavior. Chris, being cut from the same cloth, would therefore latch onto the contents of this book because their views align.

* For a quick summary of the general lessons that the book takes away, it emphasizes how it's important to take away taboos with people who are disabled and dependent on a caregiver who want sex, and it emphasizes breaking that taboo and getting comfortable asking for help achieving orgasm. One part of the book at the beginning says that there's too much taboo about who your partner is and "god forbid it be someone much older than you". "For some people it won’t be feasible to see and touch all parts of their bodies. If you require twenty-four-hour assistance you may never have someone willing to hold a mirror to see what your clitoris looks like. You may not feel comfortable even asking for that help." "What supports will you need to have in place in case you need to deal with things that come up during your experience? You may have overwhelming feelings that you don’t know how to cope with. Do you have someone you can talk with about these strong feelings or memories? If you don’t have a friend, family member, or caregiver with whom you can hash things out, or some other way that you work through difficult things in your life..."

==As a guidebook==

Seeing the book as a "valuable and informative" resource to help guide him with his incestuous relationship with Barb, Chris seems to have misinterpreted many of the things said in it.

The primary purpose of the book is to provide assistance and advice on how to perform sexual intercourse to those with physical disabilities and chronic illnesses, who would typically have problems having sexual intercourse. Therefore the scope of the book is a sexual guide written for people '''with''' disabilities, not a guide on how to have sex with disabled people.

As a result the book itself assumes the reader can already grasp what is considered sexually taboo and what is legal, as it does not appear to touch upon such topics in depth. This evidently makes it a terrible choice for Chris, whose problems relationship and sex-wise coupled with absolutely poor decision-making and reading comprehension skills go beyond the scope of this book.

===Chris the sexpert===

Chris seems to have believed himself to be in a position to mentor people with relationship problems after reading this book. This is most notable with him attempting to provide guidance to the [[Suitress]] on her finding her "long-term" sweetheart in the college she'd attend. Having newly found power in finding justification to do [[Incest|unspeakable acts]], he felt himself to be an expert in all things regarding sex and relationships.

{{clear}}

==See also==
*[[How to Talk to Girls]]
*[[Incest]]

==External links==
*[https://www.amazon.com/Ultimate-Guide-Sex-Disability-Disabilities/dp/1573443042 The book on Amazon]

{{references}}
{{Love Quest}}

[[Category:Books]]
[[Category:Love Quest]]

Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability

2021-10-20T16:32:06Z

Cwcvillepharmacy: /* "On the 3rd day he rose again" */

{{Incomplete}}

{{quote|"Whether or not you are responding in the right way, with enough oomph, often enough, and to the right sort of person (god forbid you sexually respond to someone of the same sex, or much older than you, or... well, the list goes on) ... "|The book that started the downfall.}}

[[Image:ultimate-guide-to-sex-and-disability-cover.jpg|right|thumb|200px|Abandon hope ye who enter here]]

'''''The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability''''' was written in 2007 by Miriam Kaufman. It states that it's the first complete sex guide for people who live with disabilities, pain, illness, or chronic conditions. Useful for absolutely everyone, regardless of age, gender, or sexual orientation, the book addresses a wide range of disabilities -- from chronic fatigue, back pain, and asthma to spinal cord injury, hearing and visual impairment, multiple sclerosis, and more.

Chris's first known mention of this book was on 5 [[July 2021]] in a conversation between him and [[Null]] (which was leaked on 31 July), where Chris stated:<ref>[[Incest fallout chat leaks#Chris vaguely describes his relationship]]</ref>

{{quotebox|As one of my more curious followers may have found through my Amazon by now, I even recently purchased a valuable and informative book to add additional guidance.}}

He also provided a picture of the book in his lap.<ref>[[:File:Guide to Sex and Disability.jpg]]</ref>

At time of writing, Christorians are unaware of how Chris was made aware of this book.

==Analysis==
=== Overview ===
A few Christorians have taken it upon themselves to obtain this cursed piece of literature to see exactly how its contents could influence Chris (ie: passages taken out of context). The book overall is graphic in its language and its description of the multiple facets of sex in general. As stated elsewhere its written from a perspective of someone who has a physical disability who may find sex to be awkward or unenjoyable. It is not intended as a guide on HOW to have sex with people with disabilities.

=== "Never attribute to malice that which can be adequately explained by stupidity." ===
There are a few choice passages in the book that when taken out of context, and with the reader failing to grasp on basic reading comprehension skills, could explain why Chris thought what he was doing was 'okay' and 'normal'.

{{quote|"Maybe if disabled people on the whole weren't so excluded from life and normal life experiences, then the devotee attraction would not seem weird at all, but rather a factor of the magical continuum of desire, or the notion that there's at least one somebody for everybody-- and hopefully, in all our cases, lots of somebodies"}}

: Considering how Chris views himself as [[Autism|"disabled"]], he would naturally feel that what he is doing is okay because he has been excluded from "life and normal life experiences" and "there's at least one somebody for everyone". Therefore in his mind the book is justifying his decision and giving him a sense of entitlement that he deserves this.

{{quote|"We tend to class attractions as 'normal' and 'abnormal', and an attraction to disabled folk is firmly assigned to the 'abnormal' basket. Restrictions on who we're supposed to be attracted to seem the only 'abnormal' thing to me."}}

: Chris would take this passage as the green light that justifies his sexual attraction to his mother. If there are no restrictions according to this book, why can't he have sex with his mother? However, the intention of the quote is reassure the disabled reader that his/her feelings towards someone are okay and justified, not that its okay to have sexual relationships with persons that most cultures/societies would deem as abhorrent and at very least illegal.

{{quote|"As long as the fetish doesn't involve hurting themselves, or somebody else, and is consensual, we don't think people should be quick to judge fetishes as abnormal or threatening"}}

: In the context of the book as a whole, this line boils down to "don't kink shame". Everyone has their own tastes and preferences, and nobody is in a position to judge. Except when its having sex with your own mother.

{{quote|"Whether or not you are responding in the right way, with enough oomph, often enough, and to the right sort of person (god forbid you sexually respond to someone of the same sex, ''or much older than you'')"}}

: This passage aged like milk, considering it aims to break the taboo of having sex with someone much older than you, and Chris initially led on about his sexual partner being "of this half of our universe", physically older than him, and worked "thoroughly and compassionately with her beforehand."

=== "On the 3rd day he rose again" ===

{{quote|"Successful spontaneity often happens as a result of careful planning. people tend to see this need for planning as a negative thing, but it is really an opportunity to expand our sexual horizons. regardless of disability it can be a good idea to plan ahead for sex"}}

: This quote could have been why Chris was so [Duck|rigid] with doing the deed every 3 days like clockwork.

=== Christorian Opinions/Discussion ===

In the pursuit of Christory, a number of Christorians obtained a copy of this book and subjected their eyeballs to the horrid content therein. Below are their opinions on topics on the book as a whole.

* In reading the contents of this book, the author has a common theme that amounts to "in case you talking about sex with people makes them uncomfortable, fire your caretaker and get a new one who is sex-positive". What is concerning here, is that the author implies that it is socially acceptable to discuss sexual topics with what essentially is a paid employee. This act, with someone who is not specialized in the topic, could be viewed as tactless at best and sexual harassment at worst. Therefore one must view this book through the lens of being written by someone who encourages socially unacceptable behavior. Chris, being cut from the same cloth, would therefore latch onto the contents of this book because their views align.

* For a quick summary of the general lessons that the book takes away, it emphasizes how it's important to take away taboos with people who are disabled and dependent on a caregiver who want sex, and it emphasizes breaking that taboo and getting comfortable asking for help achieving orgasm. One part of the book at the beginning says that there's too much taboo about who your partner is and "god forbid it be someone much older than you". "For some people it won’t be feasible to see and touch all parts of their bodies. If you require twenty-four-hour assistance you may never have someone willing to hold a mirror to see what your clitoris looks like. You may not feel comfortable even asking for that help." "What supports will you need to have in place in case you need to deal with things that come up during your experience? You may have overwhelming feelings that you don’t know how to cope with. Do you have someone you can talk with about these strong feelings or memories? If you don’t have a friend, family member, or caregiver with whom you can hash things out, or some other way that you work through difficult things in your life..."

==As a guidebook==

Seeing the book as a "valuable and informative" resource to help guide him with his incestuous relationship with Barb, Chris seems to have misinterpreted many of the things said in it.

The primary purpose of the book is to provide assistance and advice on how to perform sexual intercourse to those with physical disabilities and chronic illnesses, who would typically have problems having sexual intercourse. Therefore the scope of the book is a sexual guide written for people '''with''' disabilities, not a guide on how to have sex with disabled people.

As a result the book itself assumes the reader can already grasp what is considered sexually taboo and what is legal, as it does not appear to touch upon such topics in depth. This evidently makes it a terrible choice for Chris, whose problems relationship and sex-wise coupled with absolutely poor decision-making and reading comprehension skills go beyond the scope of this book.

===Chris the sexpert===

Chris seems to have believed himself to be in a position to mentor people with relationship problems after reading this book. This is most notable with him attempting to provide guidance to the [[Suitress]] on her finding her "long-term" sweetheart in the college she'd attend. Having newly found power in finding justification to do [[Incest|unspeakable acts]], he felt himself to be an expert in all things regarding sex and relationships.

{{clear}}

==See also==
*[[How to Talk to Girls]]
*[[Incest]]

==External links==
*[https://www.amazon.com/Ultimate-Guide-Sex-Disability-Disabilities/dp/1573443042 The book on Amazon]

{{references}}
{{Love Quest}}

[[Category:Books]]
[[Category:Love Quest]]

Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability

2021-10-20T16:31:13Z

Cwcvillepharmacy: Quotes/analysis from book

{{Incomplete}}

{{quote|"Whether or not you are responding in the right way, with enough oomph, often enough, and to the right sort of person (god forbid you sexually respond to someone of the same sex, or much older than you, or... well, the list goes on) ... "|The book that started the downfall.}}

[[Image:ultimate-guide-to-sex-and-disability-cover.jpg|right|thumb|200px|Abandon hope ye who enter here]]

'''''The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability''''' was written in 2007 by Miriam Kaufman. It states that it's the first complete sex guide for people who live with disabilities, pain, illness, or chronic conditions. Useful for absolutely everyone, regardless of age, gender, or sexual orientation, the book addresses a wide range of disabilities -- from chronic fatigue, back pain, and asthma to spinal cord injury, hearing and visual impairment, multiple sclerosis, and more.

Chris's first known mention of this book was on 5 [[July 2021]] in a conversation between him and [[Null]] (which was leaked on 31 July), where Chris stated:<ref>[[Incest fallout chat leaks#Chris vaguely describes his relationship]]</ref>

{{quotebox|As one of my more curious followers may have found through my Amazon by now, I even recently purchased a valuable and informative book to add additional guidance.}}

He also provided a picture of the book in his lap.<ref>[[:File:Guide to Sex and Disability.jpg]]</ref>

At time of writing, Christorians are unaware of how Chris was made aware of this book.

==Analysis==
=== Overview ===
A few Christorians have taken it upon themselves to obtain this cursed piece of literature to see exactly how its contents could influence Chris (ie: passages taken out of context). The book overall is graphic in its language and its description of the multiple facets of sex in general. As stated elsewhere its written from a perspective of someone who has a physical disability who may find sex to be awkward or unenjoyable. It is not intended as a guide on HOW to have sex with people with disabilities.

=== "Never attribute to malice that which can be adequately explained by stupidity." ===
There are a few choice passages in the book that when taken out of context, and with the reader failing to grasp on basic reading comprehension skills, could explain why Chris thought what he was doing was 'okay' and 'normal'.

{{quote|"Maybe if disabled people on the whole weren't so excluded from life and normal life experiences, then the devotee attraction would not seem weird at all, but rather a factor of the magical continuum of desire, or the notion that there's at least one somebody for everybody-- and hopefully, in all our cases, lots of somebodies"}}

: Considering how Chris views himself as [[Autism|"disabled"]], he would naturally feel that what he is doing is okay because he has been excluded from "life and normal life experiences" and "there's at least one somebody for everyone". Therefore in his mind the book is justifying his decision and giving him a sense of entitlement that he deserves this.

{{quote|"We tend to class attractions as 'normal' and 'abnormal', and an attraction to disabled folk is firmly assigned to the 'abnormal' basket. Restrictions on who we're supposed to be attracted to seem the only 'abnormal' thing to me."}}

: Chris would take this passage as the green light that justifies his sexual attraction to his mother. If there are no restrictions according to this book, why can't he have sex with his mother? However, the intention of the quote is reassure the disabled reader that his/her feelings towards someone are okay and justified, not that its okay to have sexual relationships with persons that most cultures/societies would deem as abhorrent and at very least illegal.

{{quote|"As long as the fetish doesn't involve hurting themselves, or somebody else, and is consensual, we don't think people should be quick to judge fetishes as abnormal or threatening"}}

: In the context of the book as a whole, this line boils down to "don't kink shame". Everyone has their own tastes and preferences, and nobody is in a position to judge. Except when its having sex with your own mother.

{{quote|"Whether or not you are responding in the right way, with enough oomph, often enough, and to the right sort of person (god forbid you sexually respond to someone of the same sex, ''or much older than you'')"}}

: This passage aged like milk, considering it aims to break the taboo of having sex with someone much older than you, and Chris initially led on about his sexual partner being "of this half of our universe", physically older than him, and worked "thoroughly and compassionately with her beforehand."

=== "On the 3rd day he rose again" ===

{{quote|"Successful spontaneity often happens as a result of careful planning. people tend to see this need for planning as a negative thing, but it is really an opportunity to expand our sexual horizons. regardless of disability it can be a good idea to plan ahead for sex"}}

: This quote could have been why Chris was so rigid (heh) with doing the deed every 3 days like clockwork.

=== Christorian Opinions/Discussion ===

In the pursuit of Christory, a number of Christorians obtained a copy of this book and subjected their eyeballs to the horrid content therein. Below are their opinions on topics on the book as a whole.

* In reading the contents of this book, the author has a common theme that amounts to "in case you talking about sex with people makes them uncomfortable, fire your caretaker and get a new one who is sex-positive". What is concerning here, is that the author implies that it is socially acceptable to discuss sexual topics with what essentially is a paid employee. This act, with someone who is not specialized in the topic, could be viewed as tactless at best and sexual harassment at worst. Therefore one must view this book through the lens of being written by someone who encourages socially unacceptable behavior. Chris, being cut from the same cloth, would therefore latch onto the contents of this book because their views align.

* For a quick summary of the general lessons that the book takes away, it emphasizes how it's important to take away taboos with people who are disabled and dependent on a caregiver who want sex, and it emphasizes breaking that taboo and getting comfortable asking for help achieving orgasm. One part of the book at the beginning says that there's too much taboo about who your partner is and "god forbid it be someone much older than you". "For some people it won’t be feasible to see and touch all parts of their bodies. If you require twenty-four-hour assistance you may never have someone willing to hold a mirror to see what your clitoris looks like. You may not feel comfortable even asking for that help." "What supports will you need to have in place in case you need to deal with things that come up during your experience? You may have overwhelming feelings that you don’t know how to cope with. Do you have someone you can talk with about these strong feelings or memories? If you don’t have a friend, family member, or caregiver with whom you can hash things out, or some other way that you work through difficult things in your life..."

==As a guidebook==

Seeing the book as a "valuable and informative" resource to help guide him with his incestuous relationship with Barb, Chris seems to have misinterpreted many of the things said in it.

The primary purpose of the book is to provide assistance and advice on how to perform sexual intercourse to those with physical disabilities and chronic illnesses, who would typically have problems having sexual intercourse. Therefore the scope of the book is a sexual guide written for people '''with''' disabilities, not a guide on how to have sex with disabled people.

As a result the book itself assumes the reader can already grasp what is considered sexually taboo and what is legal, as it does not appear to touch upon such topics in depth. This evidently makes it a terrible choice for Chris, whose problems relationship and sex-wise coupled with absolutely poor decision-making and reading comprehension skills go beyond the scope of this book.

===Chris the sexpert===

Chris seems to have believed himself to be in a position to mentor people with relationship problems after reading this book. This is most notable with him attempting to provide guidance to the [[Suitress]] on her finding her "long-term" sweetheart in the college she'd attend. Having newly found power in finding justification to do [[Incest|unspeakable acts]], he felt himself to be an expert in all things regarding sex and relationships.

{{clear}}

==See also==
*[[How to Talk to Girls]]
*[[Incest]]

==External links==
*[https://www.amazon.com/Ultimate-Guide-Sex-Disability-Disabilities/dp/1573443042 The book on Amazon]

{{references}}
{{Love Quest}}

[[Category:Books]]
[[Category:Love Quest]]

User:PsychoNerd054/Sandbox

2021-10-20T16:00:27Z

Cwcvillepharmacy: /* "Never attribute to malice that which can be adequately explained by stupidity." */

= Rough draft of production section=

==Analysis==
=== Overview ===
A few Christorians have taken it upon themselves to obtain this cursed piece of literature to see exactly how its contents could influence Chris (ie: passages taken out of context). The book overall is graphic in its language and its description of the multiple facets of sex in general. As stated elsewhere its written from a perspective of someone who has a physical disability who may find sex to be awkward or unenjoyable. It is not intended as a guide on HOW to have sex with people with disabilities.

=== "Never attribute to malice that which can be adequately explained by stupidity." ===
There are a few choice passages in the book that when taken out of context, and with the reader failing to grasp on basic reading comprehension skills, could explain why Chris thought what he was doing was 'okay' and 'normal'.

{{quote|"Maybe if disabled people on the whole weren't so excluded from life and normal life experiences, then the devotee attraction would not seem weird at all, but rather a factor of the magical continuum of desire, or the notion that there's at least one somebody for everybody-- and hopefully, in all our cases, lots of somebodies"}}

: Considering how Chris views himself as [[Autism|"disabled"]], he would naturally feel that what he is doing is okay because he has been excluded from "life and normal life experiences" and "there's at least one somebody for everyone". Therefore in his mind the book is justifying his decision and giving him a sense of entitlement that he deserves this.

{{quote|"We tend to class attractions as 'normal' and 'abnormal', and an attraction to disabled folk is firmly assigned to the 'abnormal' basket. Restrictions on who we're supposed to be attracted to seem the only 'abnormal' thing to me."}}

: Chris would take this passage as the green light that justifies his sexual attraction to his mother. If there are no restrictions according to this book, why can't he have sex with his mother? However, the intention of the quote is reassure the disabled reader that his/her feelings towards someone are okay and justified, not that its okay to have sexual relationships with persons that most cultures/societies would deem as abhorrent and at very least illegal.

{{quote|"As long as the fetish doesn't involve hurting themselves, or somebody else, and is consensual, we don't think people should be quick to judge fetishes as abnormal or threatening"}}

: In the context of the book as a whole, this line boils down to "don't kink shame". Everyone has their own tastes and preferences, and nobody is in a position to judge. Except when its having sex with your own mother.

{{quote|"Whether or not you are responding in the right way, with enough oomph, often enough, and to the right sort of person (god forbid you sexually respond to someone of the same sex, ''or much older than you'')"}}

: This passage aged like milk, considering it aims to break the taboo of having sex with someone much older than you, and Chris initially led on about his sexual partner being "of this half of our universe", physically older than him, and worked "thoroughly and compassionately with her beforehand."

=== "On the 3rd day he rose again" ===

{{quote|"Successful spontaneity often happens as a result of careful planning. people tend to see this need for planning as a negative thing, but it is really an opportunity to expand our sexual horizons. regardless of disability it can be a good idea to plan ahead for sex"}}

: This quote could have been why Chris was so rigid (heh) with doing the deed every 3 days like clockwork.

=== Christorian Opinions/Discussion ===

In the pursuit of Christory, a number of Christorians obtained a copy of this book and subjected their eyeballs to the horrid content therein. Below are their opinions on topics on the book as a whole.

* In reading the contents of this book, the author has a common theme that amounts to "in case you talking about sex with people makes them uncomfortable, fire your caretaker and get a new one who is sex-positive". What is concerning here, is that the author implies that it is socially acceptable to discuss sexual topics with what essentially is a paid employee. This act, with someone who is not specialized in the topic, could be viewed as tactless at best and sexual harassment at worst. Therefore one must view this book through the lens of being written by someone who encourages socially unacceptable behavior. Chris, being cut from the same cloth, would therefore latch onto the contents of this book because their views align.

* For a quick summary of the general lessons that the book takes away, it emphasizes how it's important to take away taboos with people who are disabled and dependent on a caregiver who want sex, and it emphasizes breaking that taboo and getting comfortable asking for help achieving orgasm. One part of the book at the beginning says that there's too much taboo about who your partner is and "god forbid it be someone much older than you". "For some people it won’t be feasible to see and touch all parts of their bodies. If you require twenty-four-hour assistance you may never have someone willing to hold a mirror to see what your clitoris looks like. You may not feel comfortable even asking for that help." "What supports will you need to have in place in case you need to deal with things that come up during your experience? You may have overwhelming feelings that you don’t know how to cope with. Do you have someone you can talk with about these strong feelings or memories? If you don’t have a friend, family member, or caregiver with whom you can hash things out, or some other way that you work through difficult things in your life..."

----

== Relevant quotes from the book (Stolen from discord copypasta, ie: our human shield, Greene County Health Department) ==

===Chris' Justification for everything===
* "As long as the fetish doesn't involve hurting themselves, or somebody else, and is consensual, we don't think people should be quick to judge fetishes as abnormal or threatening"
** This statement frames the whole analysis of the book. It gave chris the mental justification that what he was doing was okay. Of course it was taken completely out of context in that it doesnt apply to situations that most societies would deem as unacceptable (ie: Incest, Pedo, etc) -[[User:Cwcvillepharmacy|Cwcvillepharmacy]] ([[User talk:Cwcvillepharmacy|talk]]) 16:14, 19 October 2021 (UTC)
* "Maybe if disabled people on the whole weren't so excluded from life and normal life experiences, then the devotee attraction would not seem weird at all, but rather a factor of the magical continuum of desire, or the notion that there's at least one somebody for everybody-- and hopefully, in all our cases, lots of somebodies"
** Again, justification for his actions -[[User:Cwcvillepharmacy|Cwcvillepharmacy]] ([[User talk:Cwcvillepharmacy|talk]]) 16:14, 19 October 2021 (UTC)
* "We tend to class attractions as 'normal' and 'abnormal', and an attraction to disabled folk is firmly assigned to the 'abnormal' basket. Restrictions on who we're supposed to be attracted to seem the only 'abnormal' thing to me."
** Having sex with my mom would be viewed as abnormal, but since this book says its okay, then its okay! They just dont understand! -[[User:Cwcvillepharmacy|Cwcvillepharmacy]] ([[User talk:Cwcvillepharmacy|talk]]) 16:14, 19 October 2021 (UTC)
* "Whether or not you are responding in the right way, with enough oomph, often enough, and to the right sort of person (god forbid you sexually respond to someone of the same sex, ''or much older than you'')"

===Every 3 days===
* The chapter on Spontaneity, states "successful spontaneity often happens as a result of careful planning. people tend to see this need for planning as a negative thing, but it is really an opportunity to expand our sexual horizons. regardless of disability it can be a good idea to plan ahead for sex"

===Misc===
* ugh, this whole book just keeps saying "in case you talking about sex with people makes them uncomfortable, fire your caretaker and get a new one who is sex-positive". like every scenario the author keeps assuming that the reader shouldn't feel shame about voicing their sexual needs constantly to those around them and that everyone who is uncomfortable with it is just ableist because disabled peoples' sexuality is inherently taboo

=== Opinion/Analysis ===
* really this whole thing is under the assumption that the reader already knows about consent so it isn't really brought up with the perspective that they're the one who should be asking for consent. rather that they're the one people are assuming doesn't consent, when the contrary is true and the reader is DTF always and needs to vocalize it
* For a quick summary of the general lessons that the book takes away, it emphasizes how it's important to take away taboos with people who are disabled and dependent on a caregiver who want sex, and it emphasizes breaking that taboo and getting comfortable asking for help achieving orgasm. One part of the book at the beginning says that there's too much taboo about who your partner is and "god forbid it be someone much older than you". "For some people it won’t be feasible to see and touch all parts of their bodies. If you require twenty-four-hour assistance you may never have someone willing to hold a mirror to see what your clitoris looks like. You may not feel comfortable even asking for that help." "What supports will you need to have in place in case you need to deal with things that come up during your experience? You may have overwhelming feelings that you don’t know how to cope with. Do you have someone you can talk with about these strong feelings or memories? If you don’t have a friend, family member, or caregiver with whom you can hash things out, or some other way that you work through difficult things in your life..."

User:PsychoNerd054/Sandbox

2021-10-20T03:46:06Z

Cwcvillepharmacy: /* "Never attribute to malice that which can be adequately explained by stupidity." */

= Rough draft of production section=

==Analysis==
=== Overview ===
A few Christorians have taken it upon themselves to obtain this cursed piece of literature to see exactly how its contents could influence Chris (ie: passages taken out of context). The book overall is graphic in its language and its description of the multiple facets of sex in general. As stated elsewhere its written from a perspective of someone who has a physical disability who may find sex to be awkward or unenjoyable. It is not intended as a guide on HOW to have sex with people with disabilities.

=== "Never attribute to malice that which can be adequately explained by stupidity." ===
There are a few choice passages in the book that when taken out of context, and with the reader failing to grasp on basic reading comprehension skills, could explain why Chris thought what he was doing was 'okay' and 'normal'.

{{quote|"Maybe if disabled people on the whole weren't so excluded from life and normal life experiences, then the devotee attraction would not seem weird at all, but rather a factor of the magical continuum of desire, or the notion that there's at least one somebody for everybody-- and hopefully, in all our cases, lots of somebodies"}}

: Considering how Chris views himself as [[Autism|"disabled"]], he would naturally feel that what he is doing is okay because he has been excluded from "life and normal life experiences" like finding love. Therefore in his mind the book is justifying that because he is "disabled" and "there's at least one somebody for everyone", the logic progression would lead him to believe that what he is doing is okay.

{{quote|"We tend to class attractions as 'normal' and 'abnormal', and an attraction to disabled folk is firmly assigned to the 'abnormal' basket. Restrictions on who we're supposed to be attracted to seem the only 'abnormal' thing to me."}}

: Chris would take this passage as the green light that justifies his sexual attraction to his mother. If there are no restrictions according to this book, why can't he have sex with his mother? However, the intention of the quote is reassure the reader that his/her feelings towards someone are okay and justified, not that its okay to have sexual relationships with persons that most cultures/societies would deem as abhorrent and at very least illegal.

{{quote|"As long as the fetish doesn't involve hurting themselves, or somebody else, and is consensual, we don't think people should be quick to judge fetishes as abnormal or threatening"}}

: In the context of the book as a whole, this line boils down to "don't kink shame". Everyone has their own tastes and preferences, and nobody is in a position to judge. Except when its having sex with your own mother.

{{quote|"Whether or not you are responding in the right way, with enough oomph, often enough, and to the right sort of person (god forbid you sexually respond to someone of the same sex, ''or much older than you'')"}}

: This passage aged like milk, considering it aims to break the taboo of having sex with someone much older than you, and Chris initially led on about his sexual partner being "of this half of our universe", physically older than him, and worked "thoroughly and compassionately with her beforehand."

=== "On the 3rd day he rose again" ===

{{quote|"Successful spontaneity often happens as a result of careful planning. people tend to see this need for planning as a negative thing, but it is really an opportunity to expand our sexual horizons. regardless of disability it can be a good idea to plan ahead for sex"}}

: This quote could have been why Chris was so rigid (heh) with doing the deed every 3 days like clockwork.

=== Christorian Opinions/Discussion ===

In the pursuit of Christory, a number of Christorians obtained a copy of this book and subjected their eyeballs to the horrid content therein. Below are their opinions on topics on the book as a whole.

* In reading the contents of this book, the author has a common theme that amounts to "in case you talking about sex with people makes them uncomfortable, fire your caretaker and get a new one who is sex-positive". What is concerning here, is that the author implies that it is socially acceptable to discuss sexual topics with what essentially is a paid employee. This act, with someone who is not specialized in the topic, could be viewed as tactless at best and sexual harassment at worst. Therefore one must view this book through the lens of being written by someone who encourages socially unacceptable behavior. Chris, being cut from the same cloth, would therefore latch onto the contents of this book because their views align.

* For a quick summary of the general lessons that the book takes away, it emphasizes how it's important to take away taboos with people who are disabled and dependent on a caregiver who want sex, and it emphasizes breaking that taboo and getting comfortable asking for help achieving orgasm. One part of the book at the beginning says that there's too much taboo about who your partner is and "god forbid it be someone much older than you". "For some people it won’t be feasible to see and touch all parts of their bodies. If you require twenty-four-hour assistance you may never have someone willing to hold a mirror to see what your clitoris looks like. You may not feel comfortable even asking for that help." "What supports will you need to have in place in case you need to deal with things that come up during your experience? You may have overwhelming feelings that you don’t know how to cope with. Do you have someone you can talk with about these strong feelings or memories? If you don’t have a friend, family member, or caregiver with whom you can hash things out, or some other way that you work through difficult things in your life..."

----

== Relevant quotes from the book (Stolen from discord copypasta, ie: our human shield, Greene County Health Department) ==

===Chris' Justification for everything===
* "As long as the fetish doesn't involve hurting themselves, or somebody else, and is consensual, we don't think people should be quick to judge fetishes as abnormal or threatening"
** This statement frames the whole analysis of the book. It gave chris the mental justification that what he was doing was okay. Of course it was taken completely out of context in that it doesnt apply to situations that most societies would deem as unacceptable (ie: Incest, Pedo, etc) -[[User:Cwcvillepharmacy|Cwcvillepharmacy]] ([[User talk:Cwcvillepharmacy|talk]]) 16:14, 19 October 2021 (UTC)
* "Maybe if disabled people on the whole weren't so excluded from life and normal life experiences, then the devotee attraction would not seem weird at all, but rather a factor of the magical continuum of desire, or the notion that there's at least one somebody for everybody-- and hopefully, in all our cases, lots of somebodies"
** Again, justification for his actions -[[User:Cwcvillepharmacy|Cwcvillepharmacy]] ([[User talk:Cwcvillepharmacy|talk]]) 16:14, 19 October 2021 (UTC)
* "We tend to class attractions as 'normal' and 'abnormal', and an attraction to disabled folk is firmly assigned to the 'abnormal' basket. Restrictions on who we're supposed to be attracted to seem the only 'abnormal' thing to me."
** Having sex with my mom would be viewed as abnormal, but since this book says its okay, then its okay! They just dont understand! -[[User:Cwcvillepharmacy|Cwcvillepharmacy]] ([[User talk:Cwcvillepharmacy|talk]]) 16:14, 19 October 2021 (UTC)
* "Whether or not you are responding in the right way, with enough oomph, often enough, and to the right sort of person (god forbid you sexually respond to someone of the same sex, ''or much older than you'')"

===Every 3 days===
* The chapter on Spontaneity, states "successful spontaneity often happens as a result of careful planning. people tend to see this need for planning as a negative thing, but it is really an opportunity to expand our sexual horizons. regardless of disability it can be a good idea to plan ahead for sex"

===Misc===
* ugh, this whole book just keeps saying "in case you talking about sex with people makes them uncomfortable, fire your caretaker and get a new one who is sex-positive". like every scenario the author keeps assuming that the reader shouldn't feel shame about voicing their sexual needs constantly to those around them and that everyone who is uncomfortable with it is just ableist because disabled peoples' sexuality is inherently taboo

=== Opinion/Analysis ===
* really this whole thing is under the assumption that the reader already knows about consent so it isn't really brought up with the perspective that they're the one who should be asking for consent. rather that they're the one people are assuming doesn't consent, when the contrary is true and the reader is DTF always and needs to vocalize it
* For a quick summary of the general lessons that the book takes away, it emphasizes how it's important to take away taboos with people who are disabled and dependent on a caregiver who want sex, and it emphasizes breaking that taboo and getting comfortable asking for help achieving orgasm. One part of the book at the beginning says that there's too much taboo about who your partner is and "god forbid it be someone much older than you". "For some people it won’t be feasible to see and touch all parts of their bodies. If you require twenty-four-hour assistance you may never have someone willing to hold a mirror to see what your clitoris looks like. You may not feel comfortable even asking for that help." "What supports will you need to have in place in case you need to deal with things that come up during your experience? You may have overwhelming feelings that you don’t know how to cope with. Do you have someone you can talk with about these strong feelings or memories? If you don’t have a friend, family member, or caregiver with whom you can hash things out, or some other way that you work through difficult things in your life..."

User:PsychoNerd054/Sandbox

2021-10-20T03:41:24Z

Cwcvillepharmacy: /* Christorian Opinions/Discussion */

= Rough draft of production section=

==Analysis==
=== Overview ===
A few Christorians have taken it upon themselves to obtain this cursed piece of literature to see exactly how its contents could influence Chris (ie: passages taken out of context). The book overall is graphic in its language and its description of the multiple facets of sex in general. As stated elsewhere its written from a perspective of someone who has a physical disability who may find sex to be awkward or unenjoyable. It is not intended as a guide on HOW to have sex with people with disabilities.

=== "Never attribute to malice that which can be adequately explained by stupidity." ===
There are a few choice passages in the book that when taken out of context, and with the reader failing to grasp on basic reading comprehension skills, that could explain why Chris thought what he was doing was 'okay' and 'normal'.

{{quote|"Maybe if disabled people on the whole weren't so excluded from life and normal life experiences, then the devotee attraction would not seem weird at all, but rather a factor of the magical continuum of desire, or the notion that there's at least one somebody for everybody-- and hopefully, in all our cases, lots of somebodies"}}

: Considering how Chris views himself as [[Autism|"disabled"]], he would naturally feel that what he is doing is okay because he has been excluded from "life and normal life experiences" like finding love. Therefore in his mind the book is justifying that because he is "disabled" and "there's at least one somebody for everyone", the logic progression would lead him to believe that what he is doing is okay.

{{quote|"We tend to class attractions as 'normal' and 'abnormal', and an attraction to disabled folk is firmly assigned to the 'abnormal' basket. Restrictions on who we're supposed to be attracted to seem the only 'abnormal' thing to me."}}

: Chris would take this passage as the green light that justifies his sexual attraction to his mother. If there are no restrictions according to this book, why can't he have sex with his mother? However, the intention of the quote is reassure the reader that his/her feelings towards someone are okay and justified, not that its okay to have sexual relationships with persons that most cultures/societies would deem as abhorrent and at very least illegal.

{{quote|"As long as the fetish doesn't involve hurting themselves, or somebody else, and is consensual, we don't think people should be quick to judge fetishes as abnormal or threatening"}}

: In the context of the book as a whole, this line boils down to "don't kink shame". Everyone has their own tastes and preferences, and nobody is in a position to judge. Except when its having sex with your own mother.

{{quote|"Whether or not you are responding in the right way, with enough oomph, often enough, and to the right sort of person (god forbid you sexually respond to someone of the same sex, ''or much older than you'')"}}

: This passage aged like milk, considering it aims to break the taboo of having sex with someone much older than you, and Chris initially led on about his sexual partner being "of this half of our universe", physically older than him, and worked "thoroughly and compassionately with her beforehand."

=== "On the 3rd day he rose again" ===

{{quote|"Successful spontaneity often happens as a result of careful planning. people tend to see this need for planning as a negative thing, but it is really an opportunity to expand our sexual horizons. regardless of disability it can be a good idea to plan ahead for sex"}}

: This quote could have been why Chris was so rigid (heh) with doing the deed every 3 days like clockwork.

=== Christorian Opinions/Discussion ===

In the pursuit of Christory, a number of Christorians obtained a copy of this book and subjected their eyeballs to the horrid content therein. Below are their opinions on topics on the book as a whole.

* In reading the contents of this book, the author has a common theme that amounts to "in case you talking about sex with people makes them uncomfortable, fire your caretaker and get a new one who is sex-positive". What is concerning here, is that the author implies that it is socially acceptable to discuss sexual topics with what essentially is a paid employee. This act, with someone who is not specialized in the topic, could be viewed as tactless at best and sexual harassment at worst. Therefore one must view this book through the lens of being written by someone who encourages socially unacceptable behavior. Chris, being cut from the same cloth, would therefore latch onto the contents of this book because their views align.

* For a quick summary of the general lessons that the book takes away, it emphasizes how it's important to take away taboos with people who are disabled and dependent on a caregiver who want sex, and it emphasizes breaking that taboo and getting comfortable asking for help achieving orgasm. One part of the book at the beginning says that there's too much taboo about who your partner is and "god forbid it be someone much older than you". "For some people it won’t be feasible to see and touch all parts of their bodies. If you require twenty-four-hour assistance you may never have someone willing to hold a mirror to see what your clitoris looks like. You may not feel comfortable even asking for that help." "What supports will you need to have in place in case you need to deal with things that come up during your experience? You may have overwhelming feelings that you don’t know how to cope with. Do you have someone you can talk with about these strong feelings or memories? If you don’t have a friend, family member, or caregiver with whom you can hash things out, or some other way that you work through difficult things in your life..."

----

== Relevant quotes from the book (Stolen from discord copypasta, ie: our human shield, Greene County Health Department) ==

===Chris' Justification for everything===
* "As long as the fetish doesn't involve hurting themselves, or somebody else, and is consensual, we don't think people should be quick to judge fetishes as abnormal or threatening"
** This statement frames the whole analysis of the book. It gave chris the mental justification that what he was doing was okay. Of course it was taken completely out of context in that it doesnt apply to situations that most societies would deem as unacceptable (ie: Incest, Pedo, etc) -[[User:Cwcvillepharmacy|Cwcvillepharmacy]] ([[User talk:Cwcvillepharmacy|talk]]) 16:14, 19 October 2021 (UTC)
* "Maybe if disabled people on the whole weren't so excluded from life and normal life experiences, then the devotee attraction would not seem weird at all, but rather a factor of the magical continuum of desire, or the notion that there's at least one somebody for everybody-- and hopefully, in all our cases, lots of somebodies"
** Again, justification for his actions -[[User:Cwcvillepharmacy|Cwcvillepharmacy]] ([[User talk:Cwcvillepharmacy|talk]]) 16:14, 19 October 2021 (UTC)
* "We tend to class attractions as 'normal' and 'abnormal', and an attraction to disabled folk is firmly assigned to the 'abnormal' basket. Restrictions on who we're supposed to be attracted to seem the only 'abnormal' thing to me."
** Having sex with my mom would be viewed as abnormal, but since this book says its okay, then its okay! They just dont understand! -[[User:Cwcvillepharmacy|Cwcvillepharmacy]] ([[User talk:Cwcvillepharmacy|talk]]) 16:14, 19 October 2021 (UTC)
* "Whether or not you are responding in the right way, with enough oomph, often enough, and to the right sort of person (god forbid you sexually respond to someone of the same sex, ''or much older than you'')"

===Every 3 days===
* The chapter on Spontaneity, states "successful spontaneity often happens as a result of careful planning. people tend to see this need for planning as a negative thing, but it is really an opportunity to expand our sexual horizons. regardless of disability it can be a good idea to plan ahead for sex"

===Misc===
* ugh, this whole book just keeps saying "in case you talking about sex with people makes them uncomfortable, fire your caretaker and get a new one who is sex-positive". like every scenario the author keeps assuming that the reader shouldn't feel shame about voicing their sexual needs constantly to those around them and that everyone who is uncomfortable with it is just ableist because disabled peoples' sexuality is inherently taboo

=== Opinion/Analysis ===
* really this whole thing is under the assumption that the reader already knows about consent so it isn't really brought up with the perspective that they're the one who should be asking for consent. rather that they're the one people are assuming doesn't consent, when the contrary is true and the reader is DTF always and needs to vocalize it
* For a quick summary of the general lessons that the book takes away, it emphasizes how it's important to take away taboos with people who are disabled and dependent on a caregiver who want sex, and it emphasizes breaking that taboo and getting comfortable asking for help achieving orgasm. One part of the book at the beginning says that there's too much taboo about who your partner is and "god forbid it be someone much older than you". "For some people it won’t be feasible to see and touch all parts of their bodies. If you require twenty-four-hour assistance you may never have someone willing to hold a mirror to see what your clitoris looks like. You may not feel comfortable even asking for that help." "What supports will you need to have in place in case you need to deal with things that come up during your experience? You may have overwhelming feelings that you don’t know how to cope with. Do you have someone you can talk with about these strong feelings or memories? If you don’t have a friend, family member, or caregiver with whom you can hash things out, or some other way that you work through difficult things in your life..."

User:PsychoNerd054/Sandbox

2021-10-20T03:41:12Z

Cwcvillepharmacy: How can you assume the reader knows socially acceptable behavior when the author doesnt

= Rough draft of production section=

==Analysis==
=== Overview ===
A few Christorians have taken it upon themselves to obtain this cursed piece of literature to see exactly how its contents could influence Chris (ie: passages taken out of context). The book overall is graphic in its language and its description of the multiple facets of sex in general. As stated elsewhere its written from a perspective of someone who has a physical disability who may find sex to be awkward or unenjoyable. It is not intended as a guide on HOW to have sex with people with disabilities.

=== "Never attribute to malice that which can be adequately explained by stupidity." ===
There are a few choice passages in the book that when taken out of context, and with the reader failing to grasp on basic reading comprehension skills, that could explain why Chris thought what he was doing was 'okay' and 'normal'.

{{quote|"Maybe if disabled people on the whole weren't so excluded from life and normal life experiences, then the devotee attraction would not seem weird at all, but rather a factor of the magical continuum of desire, or the notion that there's at least one somebody for everybody-- and hopefully, in all our cases, lots of somebodies"}}

: Considering how Chris views himself as [[Autism|"disabled"]], he would naturally feel that what he is doing is okay because he has been excluded from "life and normal life experiences" like finding love. Therefore in his mind the book is justifying that because he is "disabled" and "there's at least one somebody for everyone", the logic progression would lead him to believe that what he is doing is okay.

{{quote|"We tend to class attractions as 'normal' and 'abnormal', and an attraction to disabled folk is firmly assigned to the 'abnormal' basket. Restrictions on who we're supposed to be attracted to seem the only 'abnormal' thing to me."}}

: Chris would take this passage as the green light that justifies his sexual attraction to his mother. If there are no restrictions according to this book, why can't he have sex with his mother? However, the intention of the quote is reassure the reader that his/her feelings towards someone are okay and justified, not that its okay to have sexual relationships with persons that most cultures/societies would deem as abhorrent and at very least illegal.

{{quote|"As long as the fetish doesn't involve hurting themselves, or somebody else, and is consensual, we don't think people should be quick to judge fetishes as abnormal or threatening"}}

: In the context of the book as a whole, this line boils down to "don't kink shame". Everyone has their own tastes and preferences, and nobody is in a position to judge. Except when its having sex with your own mother.

{{quote|"Whether or not you are responding in the right way, with enough oomph, often enough, and to the right sort of person (god forbid you sexually respond to someone of the same sex, ''or much older than you'')"}}

: This passage aged like milk, considering it aims to break the taboo of having sex with someone much older than you, and Chris initially led on about his sexual partner being "of this half of our universe", physically older than him, and worked "thoroughly and compassionately with her beforehand."

=== "On the 3rd day he rose again" ===

{{quote|"Successful spontaneity often happens as a result of careful planning. people tend to see this need for planning as a negative thing, but it is really an opportunity to expand our sexual horizons. regardless of disability it can be a good idea to plan ahead for sex"}}

: This quote could have been why Chris was so rigid (heh) with doing the deed every 3 days like clockwork.

=== Christorian Opinions/Discussion ===

In the pursuit of Christory, a number of Christorians obtained a copy of this book and subjected their eyeballs to the horrid content therein. Below are their opinions on topics on the book as a whole.

* In reading the contents of this book, the author has a common theme that amounts to "in case you talking about sex with people makes them uncomfortable, fire your caretaker and get a new one who is sex-positive". What is concerning here, is that the author implies that it is socially acceptable to discuss sexual topics with what essentially is a paid employee. This act, with someone who is not specialized in the topic, could be viewed as tactless at best and sexual harassment at worst. Therefore one must view this book through the lens of being written by someone who encourages socially unacceptable behavior. Chris, being cut from the same cloth, would therefore latch onto the contents of this book because their views align.

* For a quick summary of the general lessons that the book takes away, it emphasizes how it's important to take away taboos with people who are disabled and dependent on a caregiver who want sex, and it emphasizes breaking that taboo and getting comfortable asking for help achieving orgasm. One part of the book at the beginning says that there's too much taboo about who your partner is and "god forbid it be someone much older than you". "For some people it won’t be feasible to see and touch all parts of their bodies. If you require twenty-four-hour assistance you may never have someone willing to hold a mirror to see what your clitoris looks like. You may not feel comfortable even asking for that help." "What supports will you need to have in place in case you need to deal with things that come up during your experience? You may have overwhelming feelings that you don’t know how to cope with. Do you have someone you can talk with about these strong feelings or memories? If you don’t have a friend, family member, or caregiver with whom you can hash things out, or some other way that you work through difficult things in your life..."

----

== Relevant quotes from the book (Stolen from discord copypasta, ie: our human shield, Greene County Health Department) ==

===Chris' Justification for everything===
* "As long as the fetish doesn't involve hurting themselves, or somebody else, and is consensual, we don't think people should be quick to judge fetishes as abnormal or threatening"
** This statement frames the whole analysis of the book. It gave chris the mental justification that what he was doing was okay. Of course it was taken completely out of context in that it doesnt apply to situations that most societies would deem as unacceptable (ie: Incest, Pedo, etc) -[[User:Cwcvillepharmacy|Cwcvillepharmacy]] ([[User talk:Cwcvillepharmacy|talk]]) 16:14, 19 October 2021 (UTC)
* "Maybe if disabled people on the whole weren't so excluded from life and normal life experiences, then the devotee attraction would not seem weird at all, but rather a factor of the magical continuum of desire, or the notion that there's at least one somebody for everybody-- and hopefully, in all our cases, lots of somebodies"
** Again, justification for his actions -[[User:Cwcvillepharmacy|Cwcvillepharmacy]] ([[User talk:Cwcvillepharmacy|talk]]) 16:14, 19 October 2021 (UTC)
* "We tend to class attractions as 'normal' and 'abnormal', and an attraction to disabled folk is firmly assigned to the 'abnormal' basket. Restrictions on who we're supposed to be attracted to seem the only 'abnormal' thing to me."
** Having sex with my mom would be viewed as abnormal, but since this book says its okay, then its okay! They just dont understand! -[[User:Cwcvillepharmacy|Cwcvillepharmacy]] ([[User talk:Cwcvillepharmacy|talk]]) 16:14, 19 October 2021 (UTC)
* "Whether or not you are responding in the right way, with enough oomph, often enough, and to the right sort of person (god forbid you sexually respond to someone of the same sex, ''or much older than you'')"

===Every 3 days===
* The chapter on Spontaneity, states "successful spontaneity often happens as a result of careful planning. people tend to see this need for planning as a negative thing, but it is really an opportunity to expand our sexual horizons. regardless of disability it can be a good idea to plan ahead for sex"

===Misc===
* ugh, this whole book just keeps saying "in case you talking about sex with people makes them uncomfortable, fire your caretaker and get a new one who is sex-positive". like every scenario the author keeps assuming that the reader shouldn't feel shame about voicing their sexual needs constantly to those around them and that everyone who is uncomfortable with it is just ableist because disabled peoples' sexuality is inherently taboo

=== Opinion/Analysis ===
* really this whole thing is under the assumption that the reader already knows about consent so it isn't really brought up with the perspective that they're the one who should be asking for consent. rather that they're the one people are assuming doesn't consent, when the contrary is true and the reader is DTF always and needs to vocalize it
* For a quick summary of the general lessons that the book takes away, it emphasizes how it's important to take away taboos with people who are disabled and dependent on a caregiver who want sex, and it emphasizes breaking that taboo and getting comfortable asking for help achieving orgasm. One part of the book at the beginning says that there's too much taboo about who your partner is and "god forbid it be someone much older than you". "For some people it won’t be feasible to see and touch all parts of their bodies. If you require twenty-four-hour assistance you may never have someone willing to hold a mirror to see what your clitoris looks like. You may not feel comfortable even asking for that help." "What supports will you need to have in place in case you need to deal with things that come up during your experience? You may have overwhelming feelings that you don’t know how to cope with. Do you have someone you can talk with about these strong feelings or memories? If you don’t have a friend, family member, or caregiver with whom you can hash things out, or some other way that you work through difficult things in your life..."

User:PsychoNerd054/Sandbox

2021-10-20T03:39:19Z

Cwcvillepharmacy: /* Christorian Opinions/Discussion */

= Rough draft of production section=

==Analysis==
=== Overview ===
A few Christorians have taken it upon themselves to obtain this cursed piece of literature to see exactly how its contents could influence Chris (ie: passages taken out of context). The book overall is graphic in its language and its description of the multiple facets of sex in general. As stated elsewhere its written from a perspective of someone who has a physical disability who may find sex to be awkward or unenjoyable. It is not intended as a guide on HOW to have sex with people with disabilities.

=== "Never attribute to malice that which can be adequately explained by stupidity." ===
There are a few choice passages in the book that when taken out of context, and with the reader failing to grasp on basic reading comprehension skills, that could explain why Chris thought what he was doing was 'okay' and 'normal'.

{{quote|"Maybe if disabled people on the whole weren't so excluded from life and normal life experiences, then the devotee attraction would not seem weird at all, but rather a factor of the magical continuum of desire, or the notion that there's at least one somebody for everybody-- and hopefully, in all our cases, lots of somebodies"}}

: Considering how Chris views himself as [[Autism|"disabled"]], he would naturally feel that what he is doing is okay because he has been excluded from "life and normal life experiences" like finding love. Therefore in his mind the book is justifying that because he is "disabled" and "there's at least one somebody for everyone", the logic progression would lead him to believe that what he is doing is okay.

{{quote|"We tend to class attractions as 'normal' and 'abnormal', and an attraction to disabled folk is firmly assigned to the 'abnormal' basket. Restrictions on who we're supposed to be attracted to seem the only 'abnormal' thing to me."}}

: Chris would take this passage as the green light that justifies his sexual attraction to his mother. If there are no restrictions according to this book, why can't he have sex with his mother? However, the intention of the quote is reassure the reader that his/her feelings towards someone are okay and justified, not that its okay to have sexual relationships with persons that most cultures/societies would deem as abhorrent and at very least illegal.

{{quote|"As long as the fetish doesn't involve hurting themselves, or somebody else, and is consensual, we don't think people should be quick to judge fetishes as abnormal or threatening"}}

: In the context of the book as a whole, this line boils down to "don't kink shame". Everyone has their own tastes and preferences, and nobody is in a position to judge. Except when its having sex with your own mother.

{{quote|"Whether or not you are responding in the right way, with enough oomph, often enough, and to the right sort of person (god forbid you sexually respond to someone of the same sex, ''or much older than you'')"}}

: This passage aged like milk, considering it aims to break the taboo of having sex with someone much older than you, and Chris initially led on about his sexual partner being "of this half of our universe", physically older than him, and worked "thoroughly and compassionately with her beforehand."

=== "On the 3rd day he rose again" ===

{{quote|"Successful spontaneity often happens as a result of careful planning. people tend to see this need for planning as a negative thing, but it is really an opportunity to expand our sexual horizons. regardless of disability it can be a good idea to plan ahead for sex"}}

: This quote could have been why Chris was so rigid (heh) with doing the deed every 3 days like clockwork.

=== Christorian Opinions/Discussion ===

In the pursuit of Christory, a number of Christorians obtained a copy of this book and subjected their eyeballs to the horrid content therein. Below are their opinions on topics on the book as a whole.

* In reading the contents of this book, the author has a common theme that amounts to "in case you talking about sex with people makes them uncomfortable, fire your caretaker and get a new one who is sex-positive". What is concerning here, is that the author implies that it is socially acceptable to discuss sexual topics with what essentially is a paid employee. This act, with someone who is not specialized in the topic, could be viewed as tactless at best and sexual harassment at worst. Therefore one must view this book through the lens of being written by someone who encourages socially unacceptable behavior. Chris, being cut from the same cloth, would therefore latch onto the contents of this book because their views align.

* This book makes a lot of assumptions about the reader. First off it makes the assumption that the reader is physically disabled and unable to perform sexual acts due to physical limitations. The concept of discerning right and wrong, and moral vs immoral acts is out of the scope of the book and assumes the reader has some sort of moral compass.

* Due to the fact that this book is targeted to those WITH a physical disability, the discussion of consent is limited to victims of sexual assault and overcoming that obstacle. Since those with a physical disability are (as a whole) not likely to commit sexual assault (since they need instruction on how to even preform sex due to handicap) the concept of "no means no" isn't specifically stated due to the assumption the reader isn't a total dumbass.

* For a quick summary of the general lessons that the book takes away, it emphasizes how it's important to take away taboos with people who are disabled and dependent on a caregiver who want sex, and it emphasizes breaking that taboo and getting comfortable asking for help achieving orgasm. One part of the book at the beginning says that there's too much taboo about who your partner is and "god forbid it be someone much older than you". "For some people it won’t be feasible to see and touch all parts of their bodies. If you require twenty-four-hour assistance you may never have someone willing to hold a mirror to see what your clitoris looks like. You may not feel comfortable even asking for that help." "What supports will you need to have in place in case you need to deal with things that come up during your experience? You may have overwhelming feelings that you don’t know how to cope with. Do you have someone you can talk with about these strong feelings or memories? If you don’t have a friend, family member, or caregiver with whom you can hash things out, or some other way that you work through difficult things in your life..."

----

== Relevant quotes from the book (Stolen from discord copypasta, ie: our human shield, Greene County Health Department) ==

===Chris' Justification for everything===
* "As long as the fetish doesn't involve hurting themselves, or somebody else, and is consensual, we don't think people should be quick to judge fetishes as abnormal or threatening"
** This statement frames the whole analysis of the book. It gave chris the mental justification that what he was doing was okay. Of course it was taken completely out of context in that it doesnt apply to situations that most societies would deem as unacceptable (ie: Incest, Pedo, etc) -[[User:Cwcvillepharmacy|Cwcvillepharmacy]] ([[User talk:Cwcvillepharmacy|talk]]) 16:14, 19 October 2021 (UTC)
* "Maybe if disabled people on the whole weren't so excluded from life and normal life experiences, then the devotee attraction would not seem weird at all, but rather a factor of the magical continuum of desire, or the notion that there's at least one somebody for everybody-- and hopefully, in all our cases, lots of somebodies"
** Again, justification for his actions -[[User:Cwcvillepharmacy|Cwcvillepharmacy]] ([[User talk:Cwcvillepharmacy|talk]]) 16:14, 19 October 2021 (UTC)
* "We tend to class attractions as 'normal' and 'abnormal', and an attraction to disabled folk is firmly assigned to the 'abnormal' basket. Restrictions on who we're supposed to be attracted to seem the only 'abnormal' thing to me."
** Having sex with my mom would be viewed as abnormal, but since this book says its okay, then its okay! They just dont understand! -[[User:Cwcvillepharmacy|Cwcvillepharmacy]] ([[User talk:Cwcvillepharmacy|talk]]) 16:14, 19 October 2021 (UTC)
* "Whether or not you are responding in the right way, with enough oomph, often enough, and to the right sort of person (god forbid you sexually respond to someone of the same sex, ''or much older than you'')"

===Every 3 days===
* The chapter on Spontaneity, states "successful spontaneity often happens as a result of careful planning. people tend to see this need for planning as a negative thing, but it is really an opportunity to expand our sexual horizons. regardless of disability it can be a good idea to plan ahead for sex"

===Misc===
* ugh, this whole book just keeps saying "in case you talking about sex with people makes them uncomfortable, fire your caretaker and get a new one who is sex-positive". like every scenario the author keeps assuming that the reader shouldn't feel shame about voicing their sexual needs constantly to those around them and that everyone who is uncomfortable with it is just ableist because disabled peoples' sexuality is inherently taboo

=== Opinion/Analysis ===
* really this whole thing is under the assumption that the reader already knows about consent so it isn't really brought up with the perspective that they're the one who should be asking for consent. rather that they're the one people are assuming doesn't consent, when the contrary is true and the reader is DTF always and needs to vocalize it
* For a quick summary of the general lessons that the book takes away, it emphasizes how it's important to take away taboos with people who are disabled and dependent on a caregiver who want sex, and it emphasizes breaking that taboo and getting comfortable asking for help achieving orgasm. One part of the book at the beginning says that there's too much taboo about who your partner is and "god forbid it be someone much older than you". "For some people it won’t be feasible to see and touch all parts of their bodies. If you require twenty-four-hour assistance you may never have someone willing to hold a mirror to see what your clitoris looks like. You may not feel comfortable even asking for that help." "What supports will you need to have in place in case you need to deal with things that come up during your experience? You may have overwhelming feelings that you don’t know how to cope with. Do you have someone you can talk with about these strong feelings or memories? If you don’t have a friend, family member, or caregiver with whom you can hash things out, or some other way that you work through difficult things in your life..."

User:PsychoNerd054/Sandbox

2021-10-20T03:36:11Z

Cwcvillepharmacy: /* Christorian Opinions/Discussion */

= Rough draft of production section=

==Analysis==
=== Overview ===
A few Christorians have taken it upon themselves to obtain this cursed piece of literature to see exactly how its contents could influence Chris (ie: passages taken out of context). The book overall is graphic in its language and its description of the multiple facets of sex in general. As stated elsewhere its written from a perspective of someone who has a physical disability who may find sex to be awkward or unenjoyable. It is not intended as a guide on HOW to have sex with people with disabilities.

=== "Never attribute to malice that which can be adequately explained by stupidity." ===
There are a few choice passages in the book that when taken out of context, and with the reader failing to grasp on basic reading comprehension skills, that could explain why Chris thought what he was doing was 'okay' and 'normal'.

{{quote|"Maybe if disabled people on the whole weren't so excluded from life and normal life experiences, then the devotee attraction would not seem weird at all, but rather a factor of the magical continuum of desire, or the notion that there's at least one somebody for everybody-- and hopefully, in all our cases, lots of somebodies"}}

: Considering how Chris views himself as [[Autism|"disabled"]], he would naturally feel that what he is doing is okay because he has been excluded from "life and normal life experiences" like finding love. Therefore in his mind the book is justifying that because he is "disabled" and "there's at least one somebody for everyone", the logic progression would lead him to believe that what he is doing is okay.

{{quote|"We tend to class attractions as 'normal' and 'abnormal', and an attraction to disabled folk is firmly assigned to the 'abnormal' basket. Restrictions on who we're supposed to be attracted to seem the only 'abnormal' thing to me."}}

: Chris would take this passage as the green light that justifies his sexual attraction to his mother. If there are no restrictions according to this book, why can't he have sex with his mother? However, the intention of the quote is reassure the reader that his/her feelings towards someone are okay and justified, not that its okay to have sexual relationships with persons that most cultures/societies would deem as abhorrent and at very least illegal.

{{quote|"As long as the fetish doesn't involve hurting themselves, or somebody else, and is consensual, we don't think people should be quick to judge fetishes as abnormal or threatening"}}

: In the context of the book as a whole, this line boils down to "don't kink shame". Everyone has their own tastes and preferences, and nobody is in a position to judge. Except when its having sex with your own mother.

{{quote|"Whether or not you are responding in the right way, with enough oomph, often enough, and to the right sort of person (god forbid you sexually respond to someone of the same sex, ''or much older than you'')"}}

: This passage aged like milk, considering it aims to break the taboo of having sex with someone much older than you, and Chris initially led on about his sexual partner being "of this half of our universe", physically older than him, and worked "thoroughly and compassionately with her beforehand."

=== "On the 3rd day he rose again" ===

{{quote|"Successful spontaneity often happens as a result of careful planning. people tend to see this need for planning as a negative thing, but it is really an opportunity to expand our sexual horizons. regardless of disability it can be a good idea to plan ahead for sex"}}

: This quote could have been why Chris was so rigid (heh) with doing the deed every 3 days like clockwork.

=== Christorian Opinions/Discussion ===

In the pursuit of Christory, a number of Christorians obtained a copy of this book and subjected their eyeballs to the horrid content therein. Below are their opinions on topics on the book as a whole.

* In reading the contents of this book, the author makes it a point to mention "in case you talking about sex with people makes them uncomfortable, fire your caretaker and get a new one who is sex-positive". What is concerning here, is that the author implies that it is socially acceptable to discuss sexual topics with what essentially is a paid employee. This act, with someone who is not specialized in the topic, could be viewed as tactless at best and sexual harassment at worst. Therefore one must view this book through the lens of being written by someone who encourages socially unacceptable behavior. Chris, being cut from the same cloth, would therefore latch onto the contents of this book because their views align.

* This book makes a lot of assumptions about the reader. First off it makes the assumption that the reader is physically disabled and unable to perform sexual acts due to physical limitations. The concept of discerning right and wrong, and moral vs immoral acts is out of the scope of the book and assumes the reader has some sort of moral compass.

* Due to the fact that this book is targeted to those WITH a physical disability, the discussion of consent is limited to victims of sexual assault and overcoming that obstacle. Since those with a physical disability are (as a whole) not likely to commit sexual assault (since they need instruction on how to even preform sex due to handicap) the concept of "no means no" isn't specifically stated due to the assumption the reader isn't a total dumbass.

* For a quick summary of the general lessons that the book takes away, it emphasizes how it's important to take away taboos with people who are disabled and dependent on a caregiver who want sex, and it emphasizes breaking that taboo and getting comfortable asking for help achieving orgasm. One part of the book at the beginning says that there's too much taboo about who your partner is and "god forbid it be someone much older than you". "For some people it won’t be feasible to see and touch all parts of their bodies. If you require twenty-four-hour assistance you may never have someone willing to hold a mirror to see what your clitoris looks like. You may not feel comfortable even asking for that help." "What supports will you need to have in place in case you need to deal with things that come up during your experience? You may have overwhelming feelings that you don’t know how to cope with. Do you have someone you can talk with about these strong feelings or memories? If you don’t have a friend, family member, or caregiver with whom you can hash things out, or some other way that you work through difficult things in your life..."

----

== Relevant quotes from the book (Stolen from discord copypasta, ie: our human shield, Greene County Health Department) ==

===Chris' Justification for everything===
* "As long as the fetish doesn't involve hurting themselves, or somebody else, and is consensual, we don't think people should be quick to judge fetishes as abnormal or threatening"
** This statement frames the whole analysis of the book. It gave chris the mental justification that what he was doing was okay. Of course it was taken completely out of context in that it doesnt apply to situations that most societies would deem as unacceptable (ie: Incest, Pedo, etc) -[[User:Cwcvillepharmacy|Cwcvillepharmacy]] ([[User talk:Cwcvillepharmacy|talk]]) 16:14, 19 October 2021 (UTC)
* "Maybe if disabled people on the whole weren't so excluded from life and normal life experiences, then the devotee attraction would not seem weird at all, but rather a factor of the magical continuum of desire, or the notion that there's at least one somebody for everybody-- and hopefully, in all our cases, lots of somebodies"
** Again, justification for his actions -[[User:Cwcvillepharmacy|Cwcvillepharmacy]] ([[User talk:Cwcvillepharmacy|talk]]) 16:14, 19 October 2021 (UTC)
* "We tend to class attractions as 'normal' and 'abnormal', and an attraction to disabled folk is firmly assigned to the 'abnormal' basket. Restrictions on who we're supposed to be attracted to seem the only 'abnormal' thing to me."
** Having sex with my mom would be viewed as abnormal, but since this book says its okay, then its okay! They just dont understand! -[[User:Cwcvillepharmacy|Cwcvillepharmacy]] ([[User talk:Cwcvillepharmacy|talk]]) 16:14, 19 October 2021 (UTC)
* "Whether or not you are responding in the right way, with enough oomph, often enough, and to the right sort of person (god forbid you sexually respond to someone of the same sex, ''or much older than you'')"

===Every 3 days===
* The chapter on Spontaneity, states "successful spontaneity often happens as a result of careful planning. people tend to see this need for planning as a negative thing, but it is really an opportunity to expand our sexual horizons. regardless of disability it can be a good idea to plan ahead for sex"

===Misc===
* ugh, this whole book just keeps saying "in case you talking about sex with people makes them uncomfortable, fire your caretaker and get a new one who is sex-positive". like every scenario the author keeps assuming that the reader shouldn't feel shame about voicing their sexual needs constantly to those around them and that everyone who is uncomfortable with it is just ableist because disabled peoples' sexuality is inherently taboo

=== Opinion/Analysis ===
* really this whole thing is under the assumption that the reader already knows about consent so it isn't really brought up with the perspective that they're the one who should be asking for consent. rather that they're the one people are assuming doesn't consent, when the contrary is true and the reader is DTF always and needs to vocalize it
* For a quick summary of the general lessons that the book takes away, it emphasizes how it's important to take away taboos with people who are disabled and dependent on a caregiver who want sex, and it emphasizes breaking that taboo and getting comfortable asking for help achieving orgasm. One part of the book at the beginning says that there's too much taboo about who your partner is and "god forbid it be someone much older than you". "For some people it won’t be feasible to see and touch all parts of their bodies. If you require twenty-four-hour assistance you may never have someone willing to hold a mirror to see what your clitoris looks like. You may not feel comfortable even asking for that help." "What supports will you need to have in place in case you need to deal with things that come up during your experience? You may have overwhelming feelings that you don’t know how to cope with. Do you have someone you can talk with about these strong feelings or memories? If you don’t have a friend, family member, or caregiver with whom you can hash things out, or some other way that you work through difficult things in your life..."

User:PsychoNerd054/Sandbox

2021-10-20T03:33:22Z

Cwcvillepharmacy: /* Christorian Opinions/Discussion */

= Rough draft of production section=

==Analysis==
=== Overview ===
A few Christorians have taken it upon themselves to obtain this cursed piece of literature to see exactly how its contents could influence Chris (ie: passages taken out of context). The book overall is graphic in its language and its description of the multiple facets of sex in general. As stated elsewhere its written from a perspective of someone who has a physical disability who may find sex to be awkward or unenjoyable. It is not intended as a guide on HOW to have sex with people with disabilities.

=== "Never attribute to malice that which can be adequately explained by stupidity." ===
There are a few choice passages in the book that when taken out of context, and with the reader failing to grasp on basic reading comprehension skills, that could explain why Chris thought what he was doing was 'okay' and 'normal'.

{{quote|"Maybe if disabled people on the whole weren't so excluded from life and normal life experiences, then the devotee attraction would not seem weird at all, but rather a factor of the magical continuum of desire, or the notion that there's at least one somebody for everybody-- and hopefully, in all our cases, lots of somebodies"}}

: Considering how Chris views himself as [[Autism|"disabled"]], he would naturally feel that what he is doing is okay because he has been excluded from "life and normal life experiences" like finding love. Therefore in his mind the book is justifying that because he is "disabled" and "there's at least one somebody for everyone", the logic progression would lead him to believe that what he is doing is okay.

{{quote|"We tend to class attractions as 'normal' and 'abnormal', and an attraction to disabled folk is firmly assigned to the 'abnormal' basket. Restrictions on who we're supposed to be attracted to seem the only 'abnormal' thing to me."}}

: Chris would take this passage as the green light that justifies his sexual attraction to his mother. If there are no restrictions according to this book, why can't he have sex with his mother? However, the intention of the quote is reassure the reader that his/her feelings towards someone are okay and justified, not that its okay to have sexual relationships with persons that most cultures/societies would deem as abhorrent and at very least illegal.

{{quote|"As long as the fetish doesn't involve hurting themselves, or somebody else, and is consensual, we don't think people should be quick to judge fetishes as abnormal or threatening"}}

: In the context of the book as a whole, this line boils down to "don't kink shame". Everyone has their own tastes and preferences, and nobody is in a position to judge. Except when its having sex with your own mother.

{{quote|"Whether or not you are responding in the right way, with enough oomph, often enough, and to the right sort of person (god forbid you sexually respond to someone of the same sex, ''or much older than you'')"}}

: This passage aged like milk, considering it aims to break the taboo of having sex with someone much older than you, and Chris initially led on about his sexual partner being "of this half of our universe", physically older than him, and worked "thoroughly and compassionately with her beforehand."

=== "On the 3rd day he rose again" ===

{{quote|"Successful spontaneity often happens as a result of careful planning. people tend to see this need for planning as a negative thing, but it is really an opportunity to expand our sexual horizons. regardless of disability it can be a good idea to plan ahead for sex"}}

: This quote could have been why Chris was so rigid (heh) with doing the deed every 3 days like clockwork.

=== Christorian Opinions/Discussion ===

In the pursuit of Christory, a number of Christorians obtained a copy of this book and subjected their eyeballs to the horrid content therein. Below are their opinions on topics on the book as a whole.

* In reading the contents of this book, the author makes it a point to mention "in case you talking about sex with people makes them uncomfortable, fire your caretaker and get a new one who is sex-positive". What is concerning here, is that the author implies that it is socially acceptable to discuss sexual topics with what essentially is a paid employee. This act, with someone who is not specialized in the topic, could be viewed as tactless at best and sexual harassment at worst. Therefore one must view this book through the lens of being written by someone who condones socially unacceptable behavior.

* This book makes a lot of assumptions about the reader. First off it makes the assumption that the reader is physically disabled and unable to perform sexual acts due to physical limitations. The concept of discerning right and wrong, and moral vs immoral acts is out of the scope of the book and assumes the reader has some sort of moral compass.

* Due to the fact that this book is targeted to those WITH a physical disability, the discussion of consent is limited to victims of sexual assault and overcoming that obstacle. Since those with a physical disability are (as a whole) not likely to commit sexual assault (since they need instruction on how to even preform sex due to handicap) the concept of "no means no" isn't specifically stated due to the assumption the reader isn't a total dumbass.

* For a quick summary of the general lessons that the book takes away, it emphasizes how it's important to take away taboos with people who are disabled and dependent on a caregiver who want sex, and it emphasizes breaking that taboo and getting comfortable asking for help achieving orgasm. One part of the book at the beginning says that there's too much taboo about who your partner is and "god forbid it be someone much older than you". "For some people it won’t be feasible to see and touch all parts of their bodies. If you require twenty-four-hour assistance you may never have someone willing to hold a mirror to see what your clitoris looks like. You may not feel comfortable even asking for that help." "What supports will you need to have in place in case you need to deal with things that come up during your experience? You may have overwhelming feelings that you don’t know how to cope with. Do you have someone you can talk with about these strong feelings or memories? If you don’t have a friend, family member, or caregiver with whom you can hash things out, or some other way that you work through difficult things in your life..."

----

== Relevant quotes from the book (Stolen from discord copypasta, ie: our human shield, Greene County Health Department) ==

===Chris' Justification for everything===
* "As long as the fetish doesn't involve hurting themselves, or somebody else, and is consensual, we don't think people should be quick to judge fetishes as abnormal or threatening"
** This statement frames the whole analysis of the book. It gave chris the mental justification that what he was doing was okay. Of course it was taken completely out of context in that it doesnt apply to situations that most societies would deem as unacceptable (ie: Incest, Pedo, etc) -[[User:Cwcvillepharmacy|Cwcvillepharmacy]] ([[User talk:Cwcvillepharmacy|talk]]) 16:14, 19 October 2021 (UTC)
* "Maybe if disabled people on the whole weren't so excluded from life and normal life experiences, then the devotee attraction would not seem weird at all, but rather a factor of the magical continuum of desire, or the notion that there's at least one somebody for everybody-- and hopefully, in all our cases, lots of somebodies"
** Again, justification for his actions -[[User:Cwcvillepharmacy|Cwcvillepharmacy]] ([[User talk:Cwcvillepharmacy|talk]]) 16:14, 19 October 2021 (UTC)
* "We tend to class attractions as 'normal' and 'abnormal', and an attraction to disabled folk is firmly assigned to the 'abnormal' basket. Restrictions on who we're supposed to be attracted to seem the only 'abnormal' thing to me."
** Having sex with my mom would be viewed as abnormal, but since this book says its okay, then its okay! They just dont understand! -[[User:Cwcvillepharmacy|Cwcvillepharmacy]] ([[User talk:Cwcvillepharmacy|talk]]) 16:14, 19 October 2021 (UTC)
* "Whether or not you are responding in the right way, with enough oomph, often enough, and to the right sort of person (god forbid you sexually respond to someone of the same sex, ''or much older than you'')"

===Every 3 days===
* The chapter on Spontaneity, states "successful spontaneity often happens as a result of careful planning. people tend to see this need for planning as a negative thing, but it is really an opportunity to expand our sexual horizons. regardless of disability it can be a good idea to plan ahead for sex"

===Misc===
* ugh, this whole book just keeps saying "in case you talking about sex with people makes them uncomfortable, fire your caretaker and get a new one who is sex-positive". like every scenario the author keeps assuming that the reader shouldn't feel shame about voicing their sexual needs constantly to those around them and that everyone who is uncomfortable with it is just ableist because disabled peoples' sexuality is inherently taboo

=== Opinion/Analysis ===
* really this whole thing is under the assumption that the reader already knows about consent so it isn't really brought up with the perspective that they're the one who should be asking for consent. rather that they're the one people are assuming doesn't consent, when the contrary is true and the reader is DTF always and needs to vocalize it
* For a quick summary of the general lessons that the book takes away, it emphasizes how it's important to take away taboos with people who are disabled and dependent on a caregiver who want sex, and it emphasizes breaking that taboo and getting comfortable asking for help achieving orgasm. One part of the book at the beginning says that there's too much taboo about who your partner is and "god forbid it be someone much older than you". "For some people it won’t be feasible to see and touch all parts of their bodies. If you require twenty-four-hour assistance you may never have someone willing to hold a mirror to see what your clitoris looks like. You may not feel comfortable even asking for that help." "What supports will you need to have in place in case you need to deal with things that come up during your experience? You may have overwhelming feelings that you don’t know how to cope with. Do you have someone you can talk with about these strong feelings or memories? If you don’t have a friend, family member, or caregiver with whom you can hash things out, or some other way that you work through difficult things in your life..."

User:PsychoNerd054/Sandbox

2021-10-20T03:32:33Z

Cwcvillepharmacy: /* Christorian Opinions/Discussion */

= Rough draft of production section=

==Analysis==
=== Overview ===
A few Christorians have taken it upon themselves to obtain this cursed piece of literature to see exactly how its contents could influence Chris (ie: passages taken out of context). The book overall is graphic in its language and its description of the multiple facets of sex in general. As stated elsewhere its written from a perspective of someone who has a physical disability who may find sex to be awkward or unenjoyable. It is not intended as a guide on HOW to have sex with people with disabilities.

=== "Never attribute to malice that which can be adequately explained by stupidity." ===
There are a few choice passages in the book that when taken out of context, and with the reader failing to grasp on basic reading comprehension skills, that could explain why Chris thought what he was doing was 'okay' and 'normal'.

{{quote|"Maybe if disabled people on the whole weren't so excluded from life and normal life experiences, then the devotee attraction would not seem weird at all, but rather a factor of the magical continuum of desire, or the notion that there's at least one somebody for everybody-- and hopefully, in all our cases, lots of somebodies"}}

: Considering how Chris views himself as [[Autism|"disabled"]], he would naturally feel that what he is doing is okay because he has been excluded from "life and normal life experiences" like finding love. Therefore in his mind the book is justifying that because he is "disabled" and "there's at least one somebody for everyone", the logic progression would lead him to believe that what he is doing is okay.

{{quote|"We tend to class attractions as 'normal' and 'abnormal', and an attraction to disabled folk is firmly assigned to the 'abnormal' basket. Restrictions on who we're supposed to be attracted to seem the only 'abnormal' thing to me."}}

: Chris would take this passage as the green light that justifies his sexual attraction to his mother. If there are no restrictions according to this book, why can't he have sex with his mother? However, the intention of the quote is reassure the reader that his/her feelings towards someone are okay and justified, not that its okay to have sexual relationships with persons that most cultures/societies would deem as abhorrent and at very least illegal.

{{quote|"As long as the fetish doesn't involve hurting themselves, or somebody else, and is consensual, we don't think people should be quick to judge fetishes as abnormal or threatening"}}

: In the context of the book as a whole, this line boils down to "don't kink shame". Everyone has their own tastes and preferences, and nobody is in a position to judge. Except when its having sex with your own mother.

{{quote|"Whether or not you are responding in the right way, with enough oomph, often enough, and to the right sort of person (god forbid you sexually respond to someone of the same sex, ''or much older than you'')"}}

: This passage aged like milk, considering it aims to break the taboo of having sex with someone much older than you, and Chris initially led on about his sexual partner being "of this half of our universe", physically older than him, and worked "thoroughly and compassionately with her beforehand."

=== "On the 3rd day he rose again" ===

{{quote|"Successful spontaneity often happens as a result of careful planning. people tend to see this need for planning as a negative thing, but it is really an opportunity to expand our sexual horizons. regardless of disability it can be a good idea to plan ahead for sex"}}

: This quote could have been why Chris was so rigid (heh) with doing the deed every 3 days like clockwork.

=== Christorian Opinions/Discussion ===

In the pursuit of Christory, a number of Christorians obtained a copy of this book and subjected their eyeballs to the horrid content therein. Below are their opinions on topics on the book as a whole.

* In reading the contents of this book, the author makes it a point to mention "in case you talking about sex with people makes them uncomfortable, fire your caretaker and get a new one who is sex-positive". What is concerning here, is that the author implies that it is socially acceptable to discuss sexual topics with what essentially is a paid employee. This act, with someone who is not specialized in the topic, could be viewed as sexual harassment at best. Therefore one must view this book through the lens of being written by someone who condones socially unacceptable behavior.

* This book makes a lot of assumptions about the reader. First off it makes the assumption that the reader is physically disabled and unable to perform sexual acts due to physical limitations. The concept of discerning right and wrong, and moral vs immoral acts is out of the scope of the book and assumes the reader has some sort of moral compass.

* Due to the fact that this book is targeted to those WITH a physical disability, the discussion of consent is limited to victims of sexual assault and overcoming that obstacle. Since those with a physical disability are (as a whole) not likely to commit sexual assault (since they need instruction on how to even preform sex due to handicap) the concept of "no means no" isn't specifically stated due to the assumption the reader isn't a total dumbass.

* For a quick summary of the general lessons that the book takes away, it emphasizes how it's important to take away taboos with people who are disabled and dependent on a caregiver who want sex, and it emphasizes breaking that taboo and getting comfortable asking for help achieving orgasm. One part of the book at the beginning says that there's too much taboo about who your partner is and "god forbid it be someone much older than you". "For some people it won’t be feasible to see and touch all parts of their bodies. If you require twenty-four-hour assistance you may never have someone willing to hold a mirror to see what your clitoris looks like. You may not feel comfortable even asking for that help." "What supports will you need to have in place in case you need to deal with things that come up during your experience? You may have overwhelming feelings that you don’t know how to cope with. Do you have someone you can talk with about these strong feelings or memories? If you don’t have a friend, family member, or caregiver with whom you can hash things out, or some other way that you work through difficult things in your life..."

----

== Relevant quotes from the book (Stolen from discord copypasta, ie: our human shield, Greene County Health Department) ==

===Chris' Justification for everything===
* "As long as the fetish doesn't involve hurting themselves, or somebody else, and is consensual, we don't think people should be quick to judge fetishes as abnormal or threatening"
** This statement frames the whole analysis of the book. It gave chris the mental justification that what he was doing was okay. Of course it was taken completely out of context in that it doesnt apply to situations that most societies would deem as unacceptable (ie: Incest, Pedo, etc) -[[User:Cwcvillepharmacy|Cwcvillepharmacy]] ([[User talk:Cwcvillepharmacy|talk]]) 16:14, 19 October 2021 (UTC)
* "Maybe if disabled people on the whole weren't so excluded from life and normal life experiences, then the devotee attraction would not seem weird at all, but rather a factor of the magical continuum of desire, or the notion that there's at least one somebody for everybody-- and hopefully, in all our cases, lots of somebodies"
** Again, justification for his actions -[[User:Cwcvillepharmacy|Cwcvillepharmacy]] ([[User talk:Cwcvillepharmacy|talk]]) 16:14, 19 October 2021 (UTC)
* "We tend to class attractions as 'normal' and 'abnormal', and an attraction to disabled folk is firmly assigned to the 'abnormal' basket. Restrictions on who we're supposed to be attracted to seem the only 'abnormal' thing to me."
** Having sex with my mom would be viewed as abnormal, but since this book says its okay, then its okay! They just dont understand! -[[User:Cwcvillepharmacy|Cwcvillepharmacy]] ([[User talk:Cwcvillepharmacy|talk]]) 16:14, 19 October 2021 (UTC)
* "Whether or not you are responding in the right way, with enough oomph, often enough, and to the right sort of person (god forbid you sexually respond to someone of the same sex, ''or much older than you'')"

===Every 3 days===
* The chapter on Spontaneity, states "successful spontaneity often happens as a result of careful planning. people tend to see this need for planning as a negative thing, but it is really an opportunity to expand our sexual horizons. regardless of disability it can be a good idea to plan ahead for sex"

===Misc===
* ugh, this whole book just keeps saying "in case you talking about sex with people makes them uncomfortable, fire your caretaker and get a new one who is sex-positive". like every scenario the author keeps assuming that the reader shouldn't feel shame about voicing their sexual needs constantly to those around them and that everyone who is uncomfortable with it is just ableist because disabled peoples' sexuality is inherently taboo

=== Opinion/Analysis ===
* really this whole thing is under the assumption that the reader already knows about consent so it isn't really brought up with the perspective that they're the one who should be asking for consent. rather that they're the one people are assuming doesn't consent, when the contrary is true and the reader is DTF always and needs to vocalize it
* For a quick summary of the general lessons that the book takes away, it emphasizes how it's important to take away taboos with people who are disabled and dependent on a caregiver who want sex, and it emphasizes breaking that taboo and getting comfortable asking for help achieving orgasm. One part of the book at the beginning says that there's too much taboo about who your partner is and "god forbid it be someone much older than you". "For some people it won’t be feasible to see and touch all parts of their bodies. If you require twenty-four-hour assistance you may never have someone willing to hold a mirror to see what your clitoris looks like. You may not feel comfortable even asking for that help." "What supports will you need to have in place in case you need to deal with things that come up during your experience? You may have overwhelming feelings that you don’t know how to cope with. Do you have someone you can talk with about these strong feelings or memories? If you don’t have a friend, family member, or caregiver with whom you can hash things out, or some other way that you work through difficult things in your life..."

User:PsychoNerd054/Sandbox

2021-10-20T03:21:23Z

Cwcvillepharmacy: /* Christorian Opinions/Discussion */

= Rough draft of production section=

==Analysis==
=== Overview ===
A few Christorians have taken it upon themselves to obtain this cursed piece of literature to see exactly how its contents could influence Chris (ie: passages taken out of context). The book overall is graphic in its language and its description of the multiple facets of sex in general. As stated elsewhere its written from a perspective of someone who has a physical disability who may find sex to be awkward or unenjoyable. It is not intended as a guide on HOW to have sex with people with disabilities.

=== "Never attribute to malice that which can be adequately explained by stupidity." ===
There are a few choice passages in the book that when taken out of context, and with the reader failing to grasp on basic reading comprehension skills, that could explain why Chris thought what he was doing was 'okay' and 'normal'.

{{quote|"Maybe if disabled people on the whole weren't so excluded from life and normal life experiences, then the devotee attraction would not seem weird at all, but rather a factor of the magical continuum of desire, or the notion that there's at least one somebody for everybody-- and hopefully, in all our cases, lots of somebodies"}}

: Considering how Chris views himself as [[Autism|"disabled"]], he would naturally feel that what he is doing is okay because he has been excluded from "life and normal life experiences" like finding love. Therefore in his mind the book is justifying that because he is "disabled" and "there's at least one somebody for everyone", the logic progression would lead him to believe that what he is doing is okay.

{{quote|"We tend to class attractions as 'normal' and 'abnormal', and an attraction to disabled folk is firmly assigned to the 'abnormal' basket. Restrictions on who we're supposed to be attracted to seem the only 'abnormal' thing to me."}}

: Chris would take this passage as the green light that justifies his sexual attraction to his mother. If there are no restrictions according to this book, why can't he have sex with his mother? However, the intention of the quote is reassure the reader that his/her feelings towards someone are okay and justified, not that its okay to have sexual relationships with persons that most cultures/societies would deem as abhorrent and at very least illegal.

{{quote|"As long as the fetish doesn't involve hurting themselves, or somebody else, and is consensual, we don't think people should be quick to judge fetishes as abnormal or threatening"}}

: In the context of the book as a whole, this line boils down to "don't kink shame". Everyone has their own tastes and preferences, and nobody is in a position to judge. Except when its having sex with your own mother.

{{quote|"Whether or not you are responding in the right way, with enough oomph, often enough, and to the right sort of person (god forbid you sexually respond to someone of the same sex, ''or much older than you'')"}}

: This passage aged like milk, considering it aims to break the taboo of having sex with someone much older than you, and Chris initially led on about his sexual partner being "of this half of our universe", physically older than him, and worked "thoroughly and compassionately with her beforehand."

=== "On the 3rd day he rose again" ===

{{quote|"Successful spontaneity often happens as a result of careful planning. people tend to see this need for planning as a negative thing, but it is really an opportunity to expand our sexual horizons. regardless of disability it can be a good idea to plan ahead for sex"}}

: This quote could have been why Chris was so rigid (heh) with doing the deed every 3 days like clockwork.

=== Christorian Opinions/Discussion ===

In the pursuit of Christory, a number of Christorians obtained a copy of this book and subjected their eyeballs to the horrid content therein. Below are their opinions on topics on the book as a whole.

* The author of this book appears to be as self-aware as Chris, and most likely cut from the same [[Autism|cloth]]. In every situation, some permutation of the quote "in case you talking about sex with people makes them uncomfortable, fire your caretaker and get a new one who is sex-positive". Although sex with a disability to some may be a taboo subject, discussing your sexual desires with someone who is [[Tugboat|paid]] to wipe your ass and help you off the toilet is creepy at best and outright harassment at worst. There is a time and a place for everything, and discussing the trials and tribulations of getting head while sitting in a double-wide wheelchair with your hired caregiver is neither.

* This book makes a lot of assumptions about the reader. First off it makes the assumption that the reader is physically disabled and unable to perform sexual acts due to physical limitations. The concept of discerning right and wrong, and moral vs immoral acts is out of the scope of the book and assumes the reader has some sort of moral compass.

* Due to the fact that this book is targeted to those WITH a physical disability, the discussion of consent is limited to victims of sexual assault and overcoming that obstacle. Since those with a physical disability are (as a whole) not likely to commit sexual assault (since they need instruction on how to even preform sex due to handicap) the concept of "no means no" isn't specifically stated due to the assumption the reader isn't a total dumbass.

* For a quick summary of the general lessons that the book takes away, it emphasizes how it's important to take away taboos with people who are disabled and dependent on a caregiver who want sex, and it emphasizes breaking that taboo and getting comfortable asking for help achieving orgasm. One part of the book at the beginning says that there's too much taboo about who your partner is and "god forbid it be someone much older than you". "For some people it won’t be feasible to see and touch all parts of their bodies. If you require twenty-four-hour assistance you may never have someone willing to hold a mirror to see what your clitoris looks like. You may not feel comfortable even asking for that help." "What supports will you need to have in place in case you need to deal with things that come up during your experience? You may have overwhelming feelings that you don’t know how to cope with. Do you have someone you can talk with about these strong feelings or memories? If you don’t have a friend, family member, or caregiver with whom you can hash things out, or some other way that you work through difficult things in your life..."

----

== Relevant quotes from the book (Stolen from discord copypasta, ie: our human shield, Greene County Health Department) ==

===Chris' Justification for everything===
* "As long as the fetish doesn't involve hurting themselves, or somebody else, and is consensual, we don't think people should be quick to judge fetishes as abnormal or threatening"
** This statement frames the whole analysis of the book. It gave chris the mental justification that what he was doing was okay. Of course it was taken completely out of context in that it doesnt apply to situations that most societies would deem as unacceptable (ie: Incest, Pedo, etc) -[[User:Cwcvillepharmacy|Cwcvillepharmacy]] ([[User talk:Cwcvillepharmacy|talk]]) 16:14, 19 October 2021 (UTC)
* "Maybe if disabled people on the whole weren't so excluded from life and normal life experiences, then the devotee attraction would not seem weird at all, but rather a factor of the magical continuum of desire, or the notion that there's at least one somebody for everybody-- and hopefully, in all our cases, lots of somebodies"
** Again, justification for his actions -[[User:Cwcvillepharmacy|Cwcvillepharmacy]] ([[User talk:Cwcvillepharmacy|talk]]) 16:14, 19 October 2021 (UTC)
* "We tend to class attractions as 'normal' and 'abnormal', and an attraction to disabled folk is firmly assigned to the 'abnormal' basket. Restrictions on who we're supposed to be attracted to seem the only 'abnormal' thing to me."
** Having sex with my mom would be viewed as abnormal, but since this book says its okay, then its okay! They just dont understand! -[[User:Cwcvillepharmacy|Cwcvillepharmacy]] ([[User talk:Cwcvillepharmacy|talk]]) 16:14, 19 October 2021 (UTC)
* "Whether or not you are responding in the right way, with enough oomph, often enough, and to the right sort of person (god forbid you sexually respond to someone of the same sex, ''or much older than you'')"

===Every 3 days===
* The chapter on Spontaneity, states "successful spontaneity often happens as a result of careful planning. people tend to see this need for planning as a negative thing, but it is really an opportunity to expand our sexual horizons. regardless of disability it can be a good idea to plan ahead for sex"

===Misc===
* ugh, this whole book just keeps saying "in case you talking about sex with people makes them uncomfortable, fire your caretaker and get a new one who is sex-positive". like every scenario the author keeps assuming that the reader shouldn't feel shame about voicing their sexual needs constantly to those around them and that everyone who is uncomfortable with it is just ableist because disabled peoples' sexuality is inherently taboo

=== Opinion/Analysis ===
* really this whole thing is under the assumption that the reader already knows about consent so it isn't really brought up with the perspective that they're the one who should be asking for consent. rather that they're the one people are assuming doesn't consent, when the contrary is true and the reader is DTF always and needs to vocalize it
* For a quick summary of the general lessons that the book takes away, it emphasizes how it's important to take away taboos with people who are disabled and dependent on a caregiver who want sex, and it emphasizes breaking that taboo and getting comfortable asking for help achieving orgasm. One part of the book at the beginning says that there's too much taboo about who your partner is and "god forbid it be someone much older than you". "For some people it won’t be feasible to see and touch all parts of their bodies. If you require twenty-four-hour assistance you may never have someone willing to hold a mirror to see what your clitoris looks like. You may not feel comfortable even asking for that help." "What supports will you need to have in place in case you need to deal with things that come up during your experience? You may have overwhelming feelings that you don’t know how to cope with. Do you have someone you can talk with about these strong feelings or memories? If you don’t have a friend, family member, or caregiver with whom you can hash things out, or some other way that you work through difficult things in your life..."

User:PsychoNerd054/Sandbox

2021-10-20T02:38:12Z

Cwcvillepharmacy: /* "Never attribute to malice that which can be adequately explained by stupidity." */

= Rough draft of production section=

==Analysis==
=== Overview ===
A few Christorians have taken it upon themselves to obtain this cursed piece of literature to see exactly how its contents could influence Chris (ie: passages taken out of context). The book overall is graphic in its language and its description of the multiple facets of sex in general. As stated elsewhere its written from a perspective of someone who has a physical disability who may find sex to be awkward or unenjoyable. It is not intended as a guide on HOW to have sex with people with disabilities.

=== "Never attribute to malice that which can be adequately explained by stupidity." ===
There are a few choice passages in the book that when taken out of context, and with the reader failing to grasp on basic reading comprehension skills, that could explain why Chris thought what he was doing was 'okay' and 'normal'.

{{quote|"Maybe if disabled people on the whole weren't so excluded from life and normal life experiences, then the devotee attraction would not seem weird at all, but rather a factor of the magical continuum of desire, or the notion that there's at least one somebody for everybody-- and hopefully, in all our cases, lots of somebodies"}}

: Considering how Chris views himself as [[Autism|"disabled"]], he would naturally feel that what he is doing is okay because he has been excluded from "life and normal life experiences" like finding love. Therefore in his mind the book is justifying that because he is "disabled" and "there's at least one somebody for everyone", the logic progression would lead him to believe that what he is doing is okay.

{{quote|"We tend to class attractions as 'normal' and 'abnormal', and an attraction to disabled folk is firmly assigned to the 'abnormal' basket. Restrictions on who we're supposed to be attracted to seem the only 'abnormal' thing to me."}}

: Chris would take this passage as the green light that justifies his sexual attraction to his mother. If there are no restrictions according to this book, why can't he have sex with his mother? However, the intention of the quote is reassure the reader that his/her feelings towards someone are okay and justified, not that its okay to have sexual relationships with persons that most cultures/societies would deem as abhorrent and at very least illegal.

{{quote|"As long as the fetish doesn't involve hurting themselves, or somebody else, and is consensual, we don't think people should be quick to judge fetishes as abnormal or threatening"}}

: In the context of the book as a whole, this line boils down to "dont kink shame". Everyone has their own tastes and preferences, and nobody is in a position to judge. Except when its having sex with your own mother.

=== "On the 3rd day he rose again" ===

{{quote|"Successful spontaneity often happens as a result of careful planning. people tend to see this need for planning as a negative thing, but it is really an opportunity to expand our sexual horizons. regardless of disability it can be a good idea to plan ahead for sex"}}

: This quote could have been why Chris was so rigid (heh) with doing the deed every 3 days like clockwork.

=== Christorian Opinions/Discussion ===
* This book makes a lot of assumptions about the reader. First off it makes the assumption that the reader is physically disabled and unable to perform sexual acts due to physical limitations. The concept of discerning right and wrong, and moral vs immoral acts is out of the scope of the book and assumes the reader has some sort of moral compass.

* Due to the fact that this book is targeted to those WITH a physical disability, the discussion of consent is limited to victims of sexual assault and overcoming that obstacle. Since those with a physical disability are (as a whole) not likely to commit sexual assault (since they need instruction on how to even preform sex due to handicap) the concept of "no means no" isn't specifically stated due to the assumption the reader isn't a total dumbass.

* For a quick summary of the general lessons that the book takes away, it emphasizes how it's important to take away taboos with people who are disabled and dependent on a caregiver who want sex, and it emphasizes breaking that taboo and getting comfortable asking for help achieving orgasm. One part of the book at the beginning says that there's too much taboo about who your partner is and "god forbid it be someone much older than you". "For some people it won’t be feasible to see and touch all parts of their bodies. If you require twenty-four-hour assistance you may never have someone willing to hold a mirror to see what your clitoris looks like. You may not feel comfortable even asking for that help." "What supports will you need to have in place in case you need to deal with things that come up during your experience? You may have overwhelming feelings that you don’t know how to cope with. Do you have someone you can talk with about these strong feelings or memories? If you don’t have a friend, family member, or caregiver with whom you can hash things out, or some other way that you work through difficult things in your life..."

----

== Relevant quotes from the book (Stolen from discord copypasta, ie: our human shield, Greene County Health Department) ==

===Chris' Justification for everything===
* "As long as the fetish doesn't involve hurting themselves, or somebody else, and is consensual, we don't think people should be quick to judge fetishes as abnormal or threatening"
** This statement frames the whole analysis of the book. It gave chris the mental justification that what he was doing was okay. Of course it was taken completely out of context in that it doesnt apply to situations that most societies would deem as unacceptable (ie: Incest, Pedo, etc) -[[User:Cwcvillepharmacy|Cwcvillepharmacy]] ([[User talk:Cwcvillepharmacy|talk]]) 16:14, 19 October 2021 (UTC)
* "Maybe if disabled people on the whole weren't so excluded from life and normal life experiences, then the devotee attraction would not seem weird at all, but rather a factor of the magical continuum of desire, or the notion that there's at least one somebody for everybody-- and hopefully, in all our cases, lots of somebodies"
** Again, justification for his actions -[[User:Cwcvillepharmacy|Cwcvillepharmacy]] ([[User talk:Cwcvillepharmacy|talk]]) 16:14, 19 October 2021 (UTC)
* "We tend to class attractions as 'normal' and 'abnormal', and an attraction to disabled folk is firmly assigned to the 'abnormal' basket. Restrictions on who we're supposed to be attracted to seem the only 'abnormal' thing to me."
** Having sex with my mom would be viewed as abnormal, but since this book says its okay, then its okay! They just dont understand! -[[User:Cwcvillepharmacy|Cwcvillepharmacy]] ([[User talk:Cwcvillepharmacy|talk]]) 16:14, 19 October 2021 (UTC)
* "Whether or not you are responding in the right way, with enough oomph, often enough, and to the right sort of person (god forbid you sexually respond to someone of the same sex, ''or much older than you'')"

===Every 3 days===
* The chapter on Spontaneity, states "successful spontaneity often happens as a result of careful planning. people tend to see this need for planning as a negative thing, but it is really an opportunity to expand our sexual horizons. regardless of disability it can be a good idea to plan ahead for sex"

===Misc===
* ugh, this whole book just keeps saying "in case you talking about sex with people makes them uncomfortable, fire your caretaker and get a new one who is sex-positive". like every scenario the author keeps assuming that the reader shouldn't feel shame about voicing their sexual needs constantly to those around them and that everyone who is uncomfortable with it is just ableist because disabled peoples' sexuality is inherently taboo

=== Opinion/Analysis ===
* really this whole thing is under the assumption that the reader already knows about consent so it isn't really brought up with the perspective that they're the one who should be asking for consent. rather that they're the one people are assuming doesn't consent, when the contrary is true and the reader is DTF always and needs to vocalize it
* For a quick summary of the general lessons that the book takes away, it emphasizes how it's important to take away taboos with people who are disabled and dependent on a caregiver who want sex, and it emphasizes breaking that taboo and getting comfortable asking for help achieving orgasm. One part of the book at the beginning says that there's too much taboo about who your partner is and "god forbid it be someone much older than you". "For some people it won’t be feasible to see and touch all parts of their bodies. If you require twenty-four-hour assistance you may never have someone willing to hold a mirror to see what your clitoris looks like. You may not feel comfortable even asking for that help." "What supports will you need to have in place in case you need to deal with things that come up during your experience? You may have overwhelming feelings that you don’t know how to cope with. Do you have someone you can talk with about these strong feelings or memories? If you don’t have a friend, family member, or caregiver with whom you can hash things out, or some other way that you work through difficult things in your life..."

User:PsychoNerd054/Sandbox

2021-10-20T02:28:16Z

Cwcvillepharmacy: /* Analysis */

= Rough draft of production section=

==Analysis==
=== Overview ===
A few Christorians have taken it upon themselves to obtain this cursed piece of literature to see exactly how its contents could influence Chris (ie: passages taken out of context). The book overall is graphic in its language and its description of the multiple facets of sex in general. As stated elsewhere its written from a perspective of someone who has a physical disability who may find sex to be awkward or unenjoyable. It is not intended as a guide on HOW to have sex with people with disabilities.

=== "Never attribute to malice that which can be adequately explained by stupidity." ===
There are a few choice passages in the book that when taken out of context, and with the reader failing to grasp on basic reading comprehension skills, that could explain why Chris thought what he was doing was 'okay' and 'normal'.

{{quote|"Maybe if disabled people on the whole weren't so excluded from life and normal life experiences, then the devotee attraction would not seem weird at all, but rather a factor of the magical continuum of desire, or the notion that there's at least one somebody for everybody-- and hopefully, in all our cases, lots of somebodies"}}

: Considering how Chris views himself as [[Autism|"disabled"]], he would naturally feel that what he is doing is okay because he has been excluded from "life and normal life experiences" like finding love. Therefore in his mind the book is justifying that because he is "disabled" and "there's at least one somebody for everyone", the logic progression would lead him to believe that what he is doing is okay.

{{quote|"We tend to class attractions as 'normal' and 'abnormal', and an attraction to disabled folk is firmly assigned to the 'abnormal' basket. Restrictions on who we're supposed to be attracted to seem the only 'abnormal' thing to me."}}

: Chris would take this passage as the green light that justifies his sexual attraction to his mother. If there are no restrictions according to this book, why can't he has sex with his mother? However the intention of the author is to state that it is okay to be attracted to a disable person, not that its okay to have sexual relationships with persons that most cultures/societies would deem as abhorrent and at very least illegal.

{{quote|"As long as the fetish doesn't involve hurting themselves, or somebody else, and is consensual, we don't think people should be quick to judge fetishes as abnormal or threatening"}}

: In the context of the book as a whole, this line boils down to "dont kink shame". Everyone has their own tastes and preferences, and nobody is in a position to judge. Except when its having sex with your own mother.

=== "On the 3rd day he rose again" ===

{{quote|"Successful spontaneity often happens as a result of careful planning. people tend to see this need for planning as a negative thing, but it is really an opportunity to expand our sexual horizons. regardless of disability it can be a good idea to plan ahead for sex"}}

: This quote could have been why Chris was so rigid (heh) with doing the deed every 3 days like clockwork.

=== Christorian Opinions/Discussion ===
* This book makes a lot of assumptions about the reader. First off it makes the assumption that the reader is physically disabled and unable to perform sexual acts due to physical limitations. The concept of discerning right and wrong, and moral vs immoral acts is out of the scope of the book and assumes the reader has some sort of moral compass.

* Due to the fact that this book is targeted to those WITH a physical disability, the discussion of consent is limited to victims of sexual assault and overcoming that obstacle. Since those with a physical disability are (as a whole) not likely to commit sexual assault (since they need instruction on how to even preform sex due to handicap) the concept of "no means no" isn't specifically stated due to the assumption the reader isn't a total dumbass.

* For a quick summary of the general lessons that the book takes away, it emphasizes how it's important to take away taboos with people who are disabled and dependent on a caregiver who want sex, and it emphasizes breaking that taboo and getting comfortable asking for help achieving orgasm. One part of the book at the beginning says that there's too much taboo about who your partner is and "god forbid it be someone much older than you". "For some people it won’t be feasible to see and touch all parts of their bodies. If you require twenty-four-hour assistance you may never have someone willing to hold a mirror to see what your clitoris looks like. You may not feel comfortable even asking for that help." "What supports will you need to have in place in case you need to deal with things that come up during your experience? You may have overwhelming feelings that you don’t know how to cope with. Do you have someone you can talk with about these strong feelings or memories? If you don’t have a friend, family member, or caregiver with whom you can hash things out, or some other way that you work through difficult things in your life..."

----

== Relevant quotes from the book (Stolen from discord copypasta, ie: our human shield, Greene County Health Department) ==

===Chris' Justification for everything===
* "As long as the fetish doesn't involve hurting themselves, or somebody else, and is consensual, we don't think people should be quick to judge fetishes as abnormal or threatening"
** This statement frames the whole analysis of the book. It gave chris the mental justification that what he was doing was okay. Of course it was taken completely out of context in that it doesnt apply to situations that most societies would deem as unacceptable (ie: Incest, Pedo, etc) -[[User:Cwcvillepharmacy|Cwcvillepharmacy]] ([[User talk:Cwcvillepharmacy|talk]]) 16:14, 19 October 2021 (UTC)
* "Maybe if disabled people on the whole weren't so excluded from life and normal life experiences, then the devotee attraction would not seem weird at all, but rather a factor of the magical continuum of desire, or the notion that there's at least one somebody for everybody-- and hopefully, in all our cases, lots of somebodies"
** Again, justification for his actions -[[User:Cwcvillepharmacy|Cwcvillepharmacy]] ([[User talk:Cwcvillepharmacy|talk]]) 16:14, 19 October 2021 (UTC)
* "We tend to class attractions as 'normal' and 'abnormal', and an attraction to disabled folk is firmly assigned to the 'abnormal' basket. Restrictions on who we're supposed to be attracted to seem the only 'abnormal' thing to me."
** Having sex with my mom would be viewed as abnormal, but since this book says its okay, then its okay! They just dont understand! -[[User:Cwcvillepharmacy|Cwcvillepharmacy]] ([[User talk:Cwcvillepharmacy|talk]]) 16:14, 19 October 2021 (UTC)
* "Whether or not you are responding in the right way, with enough oomph, often enough, and to the right sort of person (god forbid you sexually respond to someone of the same sex, ''or much older than you'')"

===Every 3 days===
* The chapter on Spontaneity, states "successful spontaneity often happens as a result of careful planning. people tend to see this need for planning as a negative thing, but it is really an opportunity to expand our sexual horizons. regardless of disability it can be a good idea to plan ahead for sex"

===Misc===
* ugh, this whole book just keeps saying "in case you talking about sex with people makes them uncomfortable, fire your caretaker and get a new one who is sex-positive". like every scenario the author keeps assuming that the reader shouldn't feel shame about voicing their sexual needs constantly to those around them and that everyone who is uncomfortable with it is just ableist because disabled peoples' sexuality is inherently taboo

=== Opinion/Analysis ===
* really this whole thing is under the assumption that the reader already knows about consent so it isn't really brought up with the perspective that they're the one who should be asking for consent. rather that they're the one people are assuming doesn't consent, when the contrary is true and the reader is DTF always and needs to vocalize it
* For a quick summary of the general lessons that the book takes away, it emphasizes how it's important to take away taboos with people who are disabled and dependent on a caregiver who want sex, and it emphasizes breaking that taboo and getting comfortable asking for help achieving orgasm. One part of the book at the beginning says that there's too much taboo about who your partner is and "god forbid it be someone much older than you". "For some people it won’t be feasible to see and touch all parts of their bodies. If you require twenty-four-hour assistance you may never have someone willing to hold a mirror to see what your clitoris looks like. You may not feel comfortable even asking for that help." "What supports will you need to have in place in case you need to deal with things that come up during your experience? You may have overwhelming feelings that you don’t know how to cope with. Do you have someone you can talk with about these strong feelings or memories? If you don’t have a friend, family member, or caregiver with whom you can hash things out, or some other way that you work through difficult things in your life..."

User:PsychoNerd054/Sandbox

2021-10-20T02:26:06Z

Cwcvillepharmacy: /* Analysis */

= Rough draft of production section=

==Analysis==
=== Overview ===
A few Christorians have taken it upon themselves to obtain this cursed piece of literature to see exactly how its contents could influence Chris (ie: passages taken out of context). The book overall is graphic in its language and its description of the multiple facets of sex in general. As stated elsewhere its written from a perspective of someone who has a physical disability who may find sex to be awkward or unenjoyable. It is not intended as a guide on HOW to have sex with people with disabilities.

=== "Never attribute to malice that which can be adequately explained by stupidity." ===
There are a few choice passages in the book that when taken out of context, and with the reader failing to grasp on basic reading comprehension skills, that could explain why Chris thought what he was doing was 'okay' and 'normal'.

{{quotebox|"Maybe if disabled people on the whole weren't so excluded from life and normal life experiences, then the devotee attraction would not seem weird at all, but rather a factor of the magical continuum of desire, or the notion that there's at least one somebody for everybody-- and hopefully, in all our cases, lots of somebodies"}}

: Considering how Chris views himself as [[Autism|"disabled"]], he would naturally feel that what he is doing is okay because he has been excluded from "life and normal life experiences" like finding love. Therefore in his mind the book is justifying that because he is "disabled" and "there's at least one somebody for everyone", the logic progression would lead him to believe that what he is doing is okay.

{{quotebox|"We tend to class attractions as 'normal' and 'abnormal', and an attraction to disabled folk is firmly assigned to the 'abnormal' basket. Restrictions on who we're supposed to be attracted to seem the only 'abnormal' thing to me."}}

: Chris would take this passage as the green light that justifies his sexual attraction to his mother. If there are no restrictions according to this book, why can't he has sex with his mother? However the intention of the author is to state that it is okay to be attracted to a disable person, not that its okay to have sexual relationships with persons that most cultures/societies would deem as abhorrent and at very least illegal.

{{quotebox|"As long as the fetish doesn't involve hurting themselves, or somebody else, and is consensual, we don't think people should be quick to judge fetishes as abnormal or threatening"}}

: In the context of the book as a whole, this line boils down to "dont kink shame". Everyone has their own tastes and preferences, and nobody is in a position to judge. Except when its having sex with your own mother.

=== "On the 3rd day he rose again" ===

{{quotebox|"Successful spontaneity often happens as a result of careful planning. people tend to see this need for planning as a negative thing, but it is really an opportunity to expand our sexual horizons. regardless of disability it can be a good idea to plan ahead for sex"}}

: This quote could have been why Chris was so rigid (heh) with doing the deed every 3 days like clockwork.

=== Christorian Opinions/Discussion ===
* This book makes a lot of assumptions about the reader. First off it makes the assumption that the reader is physically disabled and unable to perform sexual acts due to physical limitations. The concept of discerning right and wrong, and moral vs immoral acts is out of the scope of the book and assumes the reader has some sort of moral compass.

* Due to the fact that this book is targeted to those WITH a physical disability, the discussion of consent is limited to victims of sexual assault and overcoming that obstacle. Since those with a physical disability are (as a whole) not likely to commit sexual assault (since they need instruction on how to even preform sex due to handicap) the concept of "no means no" isn't specifically stated due to the assumption the reader isn't a total dumbass.

* For a quick summary of the general lessons that the book takes away, it emphasizes how it's important to take away taboos with people who are disabled and dependent on a caregiver who want sex, and it emphasizes breaking that taboo and getting comfortable asking for help achieving orgasm. One part of the book at the beginning says that there's too much taboo about who your partner is and "god forbid it be someone much older than you". "For some people it won’t be feasible to see and touch all parts of their bodies. If you require twenty-four-hour assistance you may never have someone willing to hold a mirror to see what your clitoris looks like. You may not feel comfortable even asking for that help." "What supports will you need to have in place in case you need to deal with things that come up during your experience? You may have overwhelming feelings that you don’t know how to cope with. Do you have someone you can talk with about these strong feelings or memories? If you don’t have a friend, family member, or caregiver with whom you can hash things out, or some other way that you work through difficult things in your life..."

----

== Relevant quotes from the book (Stolen from discord copypasta, ie: our human shield, Greene County Health Department) ==

===Chris' Justification for everything===
* "As long as the fetish doesn't involve hurting themselves, or somebody else, and is consensual, we don't think people should be quick to judge fetishes as abnormal or threatening"
** This statement frames the whole analysis of the book. It gave chris the mental justification that what he was doing was okay. Of course it was taken completely out of context in that it doesnt apply to situations that most societies would deem as unacceptable (ie: Incest, Pedo, etc) -[[User:Cwcvillepharmacy|Cwcvillepharmacy]] ([[User talk:Cwcvillepharmacy|talk]]) 16:14, 19 October 2021 (UTC)
* "Maybe if disabled people on the whole weren't so excluded from life and normal life experiences, then the devotee attraction would not seem weird at all, but rather a factor of the magical continuum of desire, or the notion that there's at least one somebody for everybody-- and hopefully, in all our cases, lots of somebodies"
** Again, justification for his actions -[[User:Cwcvillepharmacy|Cwcvillepharmacy]] ([[User talk:Cwcvillepharmacy|talk]]) 16:14, 19 October 2021 (UTC)
* "We tend to class attractions as 'normal' and 'abnormal', and an attraction to disabled folk is firmly assigned to the 'abnormal' basket. Restrictions on who we're supposed to be attracted to seem the only 'abnormal' thing to me."
** Having sex with my mom would be viewed as abnormal, but since this book says its okay, then its okay! They just dont understand! -[[User:Cwcvillepharmacy|Cwcvillepharmacy]] ([[User talk:Cwcvillepharmacy|talk]]) 16:14, 19 October 2021 (UTC)
* "Whether or not you are responding in the right way, with enough oomph, often enough, and to the right sort of person (god forbid you sexually respond to someone of the same sex, ''or much older than you'')"

===Every 3 days===
* The chapter on Spontaneity, states "successful spontaneity often happens as a result of careful planning. people tend to see this need for planning as a negative thing, but it is really an opportunity to expand our sexual horizons. regardless of disability it can be a good idea to plan ahead for sex"

===Misc===
* ugh, this whole book just keeps saying "in case you talking about sex with people makes them uncomfortable, fire your caretaker and get a new one who is sex-positive". like every scenario the author keeps assuming that the reader shouldn't feel shame about voicing their sexual needs constantly to those around them and that everyone who is uncomfortable with it is just ableist because disabled peoples' sexuality is inherently taboo

=== Opinion/Analysis ===
* really this whole thing is under the assumption that the reader already knows about consent so it isn't really brought up with the perspective that they're the one who should be asking for consent. rather that they're the one people are assuming doesn't consent, when the contrary is true and the reader is DTF always and needs to vocalize it
* For a quick summary of the general lessons that the book takes away, it emphasizes how it's important to take away taboos with people who are disabled and dependent on a caregiver who want sex, and it emphasizes breaking that taboo and getting comfortable asking for help achieving orgasm. One part of the book at the beginning says that there's too much taboo about who your partner is and "god forbid it be someone much older than you". "For some people it won’t be feasible to see and touch all parts of their bodies. If you require twenty-four-hour assistance you may never have someone willing to hold a mirror to see what your clitoris looks like. You may not feel comfortable even asking for that help." "What supports will you need to have in place in case you need to deal with things that come up during your experience? You may have overwhelming feelings that you don’t know how to cope with. Do you have someone you can talk with about these strong feelings or memories? If you don’t have a friend, family member, or caregiver with whom you can hash things out, or some other way that you work through difficult things in your life..."

User:PsychoNerd054/Sandbox

2021-10-20T02:13:50Z

Cwcvillepharmacy: /* Analysis */

User:PsychoNerd054/Sandbox

2021-10-20T02:12:07Z

Cwcvillepharmacy: /* Analysis */

Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability

2021-10-20T01:59:01Z

Cwcvillepharmacy: This out of context quote is chris' life

User:PsychoNerd054/Sandbox

2021-10-19T16:57:41Z

Cwcvillepharmacy:

Talk:Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability

2021-10-19T16:14:37Z

Cwcvillepharmacy: /* Chris' Justification for everything */

So. Obviously this book has more content than the "How to talk to girls" section. Do we paste the relevant parts of the book that chris took out of context to justify his behavior and link them to the incest points? Or do we just make a list here of the quotes then decide what to do with them. --[[User:Cwcvillepharmacy|Cwcvillepharmacy]] ([[User talk:Cwcvillepharmacy|talk]]) 04:03, 19 October 2021 (UTC)

: This is essentially an analysis page, so I say go ahead and take quotes he took out of context and link them.[[User:PsychoNerd054|PsychoNerd]] ([[User talk:PsychoNerd054|talk]]) 09:56, 19 October 2021 (UTC)

: I also propose adding a section where it talks about his attempts to mentor people. His ego was clearly through the roof sex-wise when he attempted to mentor the [[Suitress]] about her "long-term" relationships. It also kind of shows how little he actually cared by that point. [[User:PsychoNerd054|PsychoNerd]] ([[User talk:PsychoNerd054|talk]]) 10:16, 19 October 2021 (UTC)

== Relevant quotes from the book (Stolen from discord copypasta, ie: our human shield, Greene County Health Department) ==

===Chris' Justification for everything===
* "As long as the fetish doesn't involve hurting themselves, or somebody else, and is consensual, we don't think people should be quick to judge fetishes as abnormal or threatening"
** This statement frames the whole analysis of the book. It gave chris the mental justification that what he was doing was okay. Of course it was taken completely out of context in that it doesnt apply to situations that most societies would deem as unacceptable (ie: Incest, Pedo, etc) -[[User:Cwcvillepharmacy|Cwcvillepharmacy]] ([[User talk:Cwcvillepharmacy|talk]]) 16:14, 19 October 2021 (UTC)
* "Maybe if disabled people on the whole weren't so excluded from life and normal life experiences, then the devotee attraction would not seem weird at all, but rather a factor of the magical continuum of desire, or the notion that there's at least one somebody for everybody-- and hopefully, in all our cases, lots of somebodies"
** Again, justification for his actions -[[User:Cwcvillepharmacy|Cwcvillepharmacy]] ([[User talk:Cwcvillepharmacy|talk]]) 16:14, 19 October 2021 (UTC)
* "We tend to class attractions as 'normal' and 'abnormal', and an attraction to disabled folk is firmly assigned to the 'abnormal' basket. Restrictions on who we're supposed to be attracted to seem the only 'abnormal' thing to me."
** Having sex with my mom would be viewed as abnormal, but since this book says its okay, then its okay! They just dont understand! -[[User:Cwcvillepharmacy|Cwcvillepharmacy]] ([[User talk:Cwcvillepharmacy|talk]]) 16:14, 19 October 2021 (UTC)

===Every 3 days===
* The chapter on Spontaneity, states "successful spontaneity often happens as a result of careful planning. people tend to see this need for planning as a negative thing, but it is really an opportunity to expand our sexual horizons. regardless of disability it can be a good idea to plan ahead for sex"

===Misc===
* ugh, this whole book just keeps saying "in case you talking about sex with people makes them uncomfortable, fire your caretaker and get a new one who is sex-positive". like every scenario the author keeps assuming that the reader shouldn't feel shame about voicing their sexual needs constantly to those around them and that everyone who is uncomfortable with it is just ableist because disabled peoples' sexuality is inherently taboo

=== Opinion/Analysis ===
* really this whole thing is under the assumption that the reader already knows about consent so it isn't really brought up with the perspective that they're the one who should be asking for consent. rather that they're the one people are assuming doesn't consent, when the contrary is true and the reader is DTF always and needs to vocalize it
* For a quick summary of the general lessons that the book takes away, it emphasizes how it's important to take away taboos with people who are disabled and dependent on a caregiver who want sex, and it emphasizes breaking that taboo and getting comfortable asking for help achieving orgasm. One part of the book at the beginning says that there's too much taboo about who your partner is and "god forbid it be someone much older than you". "For some people it won’t be feasible to see and touch all parts of their bodies. If you require twenty-four-hour assistance you may never have someone willing to hold a mirror to see what your clitoris looks like. You may not feel comfortable even asking for that help." "What supports will you need to have in place in case you need to deal with things that come up during your experience? You may have overwhelming feelings that you don’t know how to cope with. Do you have someone you can talk with about these strong feelings or memories? If you don’t have a friend, family member, or caregiver with whom you can hash things out, or some other way that you work through difficult things in your life..."

Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability

2021-10-19T16:00:25Z

Cwcvillepharmacy: /* Analysis of book */

[[Image:ultimate-guide-to-sex-and-disability-cover.jpg|right|thumb|200px|Abandon hope ye who enter here]]

'''''The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability''''' was written in 2007 by Miriam Kaufman. It states that it's the first complete sex guide for people who live with disabilities, pain, illness, or chronic conditions. Useful for absolutely everyone, regardless of age, gender, or sexual orientation, the book addresses a wide range of disabilities -- from chronic fatigue, back pain, and asthma to spinal cord injury, hearing and visual impairment, multiple sclerosis, and more.

Chris's first known mention of this book was on 5 [[July 2021]] in a conversation between him and [[Null]] (which was leaked on 31 July), where Chris stated:<ref>[[Incest fallout chat leaks#Chris vaguely describes his relationship]]</ref>

{{quotebox|As one of my more curious followers may have found through my Amazon by now, I even recently purchased a valuable and informative book to add additional guidance.}}

He also provided a picture of the book in his lap.<ref>[[:File:Guide to Sex and Disability.jpg]]</ref>

At time of writing, Christorians are unaware of how Chris was made aware of this book.

{{Incomplete}}

==Analysis of book==
=== Overview ===
A few Christorians have taken it upon themselves to obtain this cursed piece of literature to see exactly how its contents could influence Chris (ie: passages taken out of context). The book overall is graphic in its language and its description of the multiple facets of sex in general. As stated elsewhere its written from a perspective of someone who has a physical disability who may find sex to be awkward or unenjoyable. It is not intended as a guide on HOW to have sex with people with disabilities.

==As a guidebook==

Seeing the book as a "valuable and informative" resource to help guide him with his incestuous relationship with Barb, Chris seems to have misinterpreted many of the things said in it.

The primary purpose of the book is to provide assistance and advice on how to perform sexual intercourse to those with physical disabilities and chronic illnesses, who would typically have problems having sexual intercourse. Therefore the scope of the book is a sexual guide written for people '''with''' disabilities, not a guide on how to have sex with disabled people.

As a result the book itself assumes the reader can already grasp what is considered sexually taboo and what is legal, as it does not appear to touch upon such topics in depth. This evidently makes it a terrible choice for Chris, whose problems relationship and sex-wise coupled with absolutely poor decision-making and reading comprehension skills go beyond the scope of this book.

===Chris the sexpert===

Chris seems to have believed himself to be in a position to mentor people with relationship problems after reading this book. This is most notable with him attempting to provide guidance to the [[Suitress]] on her finding her "long-term" sweetheart in the college she'd attend. Having newly found power in finding justification to do [[Incest|unspeakable acts]], he felt himself to be an expert in all things sexual and relationships.

{{clear}}

==See also==
*[[How to Talk to Girls]]
*[[Incest]]

==External links==
*[https://www.amazon.com/Ultimate-Guide-Sex-Disability-Disabilities/dp/1573443042 The book on Amazon]

{{references}}

Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability

2021-10-19T15:59:19Z

Cwcvillepharmacy: Start of Analysis

[[Image:ultimate-guide-to-sex-and-disability-cover.jpg|right|thumb|200px|Abandon hope ye who enter here]]

'''''The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability''''' was written in 2007 by Miriam Kaufman. It states that it's the first complete sex guide for people who live with disabilities, pain, illness, or chronic conditions. Useful for absolutely everyone, regardless of age, gender, or sexual orientation, the book addresses a wide range of disabilities -- from chronic fatigue, back pain, and asthma to spinal cord injury, hearing and visual impairment, multiple sclerosis, and more.

Chris's first known mention of this book was on 5 [[July 2021]] in a conversation between him and [[Null]] (which was leaked on 31 July), where Chris stated:<ref>[[Incest fallout chat leaks#Chris vaguely describes his relationship]]</ref>

{{quotebox|As one of my more curious followers may have found through my Amazon by now, I even recently purchased a valuable and informative book to add additional guidance.}}

He also provided a picture of the book in his lap.<ref>[[:File:Guide to Sex and Disability.jpg]]</ref>

At time of writing, Christorians are unaware of how Chris was made aware of this book.

{{Incomplete}}

==Analysis of book==
=== Overview ===
A few Christorians have taken it upon themselves to obtain this cursed piece of literature to see exactly how its contents could influence Chris (ie: passages taken out of context). The book overall is graphic in its language and its description of the multiple facets of sex in general. As stated above its written from a perspective of someone who has a physical disability who may find sex to be awkward or unenjoyable.

==As a guidebook==

Seeing the book as a "valuable and informative" resource to help guide him with his incestuous relationship with Barb, Chris seems to have misinterpreted many of the things said in it.

The primary purpose of the book is to provide assistance and advice on how to perform sexual intercourse to those with physical disabilities and chronic illnesses, who would typically have problems having sexual intercourse. Therefore the scope of the book is a sexual guide written for people '''with''' disabilities, not a guide on how to have sex with disabled people.

As a result the book itself assumes the reader can already grasp what is considered sexually taboo and what is legal, as it does not appear to touch upon such topics in depth. This evidently makes it a terrible choice for Chris, whose problems relationship and sex-wise coupled with absolutely poor decision-making and reading comprehension skills go beyond the scope of this book.

===Chris the sexpert===

Chris seems to have believed himself to be in a position to mentor people with relationship problems after reading this book. This is most notable with him attempting to provide guidance to the [[Suitress]] on her finding her "long-term" sweetheart in the college she'd attend. Having newly found power in finding justification to do [[Incest|unspeakable acts]], he felt himself to be an expert in all things sexual and relationships.

{{clear}}

==See also==
*[[How to Talk to Girls]]
*[[Incest]]

==External links==
*[https://www.amazon.com/Ultimate-Guide-Sex-Disability-Disabilities/dp/1573443042 The book on Amazon]

{{references}}

Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability

2021-10-19T15:50:18Z

Cwcvillepharmacy:

[[Image:ultimate-guide-to-sex-and-disability-cover.jpg|right|thumb|200px|Abandon hope ye who enter here]]

'''''The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability''''' was written in 2007 by Miriam Kaufman. It states that it's the first complete sex guide for people who live with disabilities, pain, illness, or chronic conditions. Useful for absolutely everyone, regardless of age, gender, or sexual orientation, the book addresses a wide range of disabilities -- from chronic fatigue, back pain, and asthma to spinal cord injury, hearing and visual impairment, multiple sclerosis, and more.

Chris's first known mention of this book was on 5 [[July 2021]] in a conversation between him and [[Null]] (which was leaked on 31 July), where Chris stated:<ref>[[Incest fallout chat leaks#Chris vaguely describes his relationship]]</ref>

{{quotebox|As one of my more curious followers may have found through my Amazon by now, I even recently purchased a valuable and informative book to add additional guidance.}}

He also provided a picture of the book in his lap.<ref>[[:File:Guide to Sex and Disability.jpg]]</ref>

At time of writing, Christorians are unaware of how Chris was made aware of this book.

==As a guidebook==
{{Incomplete}}

Seeing the book as a "valuable and informative" resource to help guide him with his incestuous relationship with Barb, Chris seems to have misinterpreted many of the things said in it.

The primary purpose of the book is to provide assistance and advice on how to perform sexual intercourse to those with physical disabilities and chronic illnesses, who would typically have problems having sexual intercourse. Therefore the scope of the book is a sexual guide written for people '''with''' disabilities, not a guide on how to have sex with disabled people.

As a result the book itself assumes the reader can already grasp what is considered sexually taboo and what is legal, as it does not appear to touch upon such topics in depth. This evidently makes it a terrible choice for Chris, whose problems relationship and sex-wise coupled with absolutely poor decision-making and reading comprehension skills go beyond the scope of this book.

===Chris the sexpert===

Chris seems to have believed himself to be in a position to mentor people with relationship problems after reading this book. This is most notable with him attempting to provide guidance to the [[Suitress]] on her finding her "long-term" sweetheart in the college she'd attend. Having newly found power in finding justification to do [[Incest|unspeakable acts]], he felt himself to be an expert in all things sexual and relationships.

{{clear}}

==See also==
*[[How to Talk to Girls]]
*[[Incest]]

==External links==
*[https://www.amazon.com/Ultimate-Guide-Sex-Disability-Disabilities/dp/1573443042 The book on Amazon]

{{references}}

Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability

2021-10-19T15:48:52Z

Cwcvillepharmacy: /* As a guidebook */

[[Image:ultimate-guide-to-sex-and-disability-cover.jpg|right|thumb|200px|The book's cover.]]

'''''The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability''''' was written in 2007 by Miriam Kaufman. It states that it's the first complete sex guide for people who live with disabilities, pain, illness, or chronic conditions. Useful for absolutely everyone, regardless of age, gender, or sexual orientation, the book addresses a wide range of disabilities -- from chronic fatigue, back pain, and asthma to spinal cord injury, hearing and visual impairment, multiple sclerosis, and more.

Chris's first known mention of this book was on 5 [[July 2021]] in a conversation between him and [[Null]] (which was leaked on 31 July), where Chris stated:<ref>[[Incest fallout chat leaks#Chris vaguely describes his relationship]]</ref>

{{quotebox|As one of my more curious followers may have found through my Amazon by now, I even recently purchased a valuable and informative book to add additional guidance.}}

He also provided a picture of the book in his lap.<ref>[[:File:Guide to Sex and Disability.jpg]]</ref>

At time of writing, Christorians are unaware of how Chris was made aware of this book.

==As a guidebook==
{{Incomplete}}

Seeing the book as a "valuable and informative" resource to help guide him with his incestuous relationship with Barb, Chris seems to have misinterpreted many of the things said in it.

The primary purpose of the book is to provide assistance and advice on how to perform sexual intercourse to those with physical disabilities and chronic illnesses, who would typically have problems having sexual intercourse. Therefore the scope of the book is a sexual guide written for people '''with''' disabilities, not a guide on how to have sex with disabled people.

As a result the book itself assumes the reader can already grasp what is considered sexually taboo and what is legal, as it does not appear to touch upon such topics in depth. This evidently makes it a terrible choice for Chris, whose problems relationship and sex-wise coupled with absolutely poor decision-making and reading comprehension skills go beyond the scope of this book.

===Chris the sexpert===

Chris seems to have believed himself to be in a position to mentor people with relationship problems after reading this book. This is most notable with him attempting to provide guidance to the [[Suitress]] on her finding her "long-term" sweetheart in the college she'd attend. Having newly found power in finding justification to do [[Incest|unspeakable acts]], he felt himself to be an expert in all things sexual and relationships.

{{clear}}

==See also==
*[[How to Talk to Girls]]
*[[Incest]]

==External links==
*[https://www.amazon.com/Ultimate-Guide-Sex-Disability-Disabilities/dp/1573443042 The book on Amazon]

{{references}}

Talk:Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability

2021-10-19T15:32:12Z

Cwcvillepharmacy:

So. Obviously this book has more content than the "How to talk to girls" section. Do we paste the relevant parts of the book that chris took out of context to justify his behavior and link them to the incest points? Or do we just make a list here of the quotes then decide what to do with them. --[[User:Cwcvillepharmacy|Cwcvillepharmacy]] ([[User talk:Cwcvillepharmacy|talk]]) 04:03, 19 October 2021 (UTC)

: This is essentially an analysis page, so I say go ahead and take quotes he took out of context and link them.[[User:PsychoNerd054|PsychoNerd]] ([[User talk:PsychoNerd054|talk]]) 09:56, 19 October 2021 (UTC)

: I also propose adding a section where it talks about his attempts to mentor people. His ego was clearly through the roof sex-wise when he attempted to mentor the [[Suitress]] about her "long-term" relationships. It also kind of shows how little he actually cared by that point. [[User:PsychoNerd054|PsychoNerd]] ([[User talk:PsychoNerd054|talk]]) 10:16, 19 October 2021 (UTC)

== Relevant quotes from the book (Stolen from discord copypasta, ie: our human shield, Greene County Health Department) ==

===Chris' Justification for everything===
* "As long as the fetish doesn't involve hurting themselves, or somebody else, and is consensual, we don't think people should be quick to judge fetishes as abnormal or threatening"
* "Maybe if disabled people on the whole weren't so excluded from life and normal life experiences, then the devotee attraction would not seem weird at all, but rather a factor of the magical continuum of desire, or the notion that there's at least one somebody for everybody-- and hopefully, in all our cases, lots of somebodies"
* "We tend to class attractions as 'normal' and 'abnormal', and an attraction to disabled folk is firmly assigned to the 'abnormal' basket. Restrictions on who we're supposed to be attracted to seem the only 'abnormal' thing to me."

===Every 3 days===
* The chapter on Spontaneity, states "successful spontaneity often happens as a result of careful planning. people tend to see this need for planning as a negative thing, but it is really an opportunity to expand our sexual horizons. regardless of disability it can be a good idea to plan ahead for sex"

===Misc===
* ugh, this whole book just keeps saying "in case you talking about sex with people makes them uncomfortable, fire your caretaker and get a new one who is sex-positive". like every scenario the author keeps assuming that the reader shouldn't feel shame about voicing their sexual needs constantly to those around them and that everyone who is uncomfortable with it is just ableist because disabled peoples' sexuality is inherently taboo

=== Opinion/Analysis ===
* really this whole thing is under the assumption that the reader already knows about consent so it isn't really brought up with the perspective that they're the one who should be asking for consent. rather that they're the one people are assuming doesn't consent, when the contrary is true and the reader is DTF always and needs to vocalize it
* For a quick summary of the general lessons that the book takes away, it emphasizes how it's important to take away taboos with people who are disabled and dependent on a caregiver who want sex, and it emphasizes breaking that taboo and getting comfortable asking for help achieving orgasm. One part of the book at the beginning says that there's too much taboo about who your partner is and "god forbid it be someone much older than you". "For some people it won’t be feasible to see and touch all parts of their bodies. If you require twenty-four-hour assistance you may never have someone willing to hold a mirror to see what your clitoris looks like. You may not feel comfortable even asking for that help." "What supports will you need to have in place in case you need to deal with things that come up during your experience? You may have overwhelming feelings that you don’t know how to cope with. Do you have someone you can talk with about these strong feelings or memories? If you don’t have a friend, family member, or caregiver with whom you can hash things out, or some other way that you work through difficult things in your life..."

Talk:Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability

2021-10-19T15:31:36Z

Cwcvillepharmacy: Added quotes that were already discussed in the discord

So. Obviously this book has more content than the "How to talk to girls" section. Do we paste the relevant parts of the book that chris took out of context to justify his behavior and link them to the incest points? Or do we just make a list here of the quotes then decide what to do with them. --[[User:Cwcvillepharmacy|Cwcvillepharmacy]] ([[User talk:Cwcvillepharmacy|talk]]) 04:03, 19 October 2021 (UTC)

: This is essentially an analysis page, so I say go ahead and take quotes he took out of context and link them.[[User:PsychoNerd054|PsychoNerd]] ([[User talk:PsychoNerd054|talk]]) 09:56, 19 October 2021 (UTC)

: I also propose adding a section where it talks about his attempts to mentor people. His ego was clearly through the roof sex-wise when he attempted to mentor the [[Suitress]] about her "long-term" relationships. It also kind of shows how little he actually cared by that point. [[User:PsychoNerd054|PsychoNerd]] ([[User talk:PsychoNerd054|talk]]) 10:16, 19 October 2021 (UTC)

== Relevant quotes from the book (Stolen from discord copypasta, ie: our human shield Greene County Health Department) ==

===Chris' Justification for everything===
* "As long as the fetish doesn't involve hurting themselves, or somebody else, and is consensual, we don't think people should be quick to judge fetishes as abnormal or threatening"
* "Maybe if disabled people on the whole weren't so excluded from life and normal life experiences, then the devotee attraction would not seem weird at all, but rather a factor of the magical continuum of desire, or the notion that there's at least one somebody for everybody-- and hopefully, in all our cases, lots of somebodies"
* "We tend to class attractions as 'normal' and 'abnormal', and an attraction to disabled folk is firmly assigned to the 'abnormal' basket. Restrictions on who we're supposed to be attracted to seem the only 'abnormal' thing to me."

===Every 3 days===
* The chapter on Spontaneity, states "successful spontaneity often happens as a result of careful planning. people tend to see this need for planning as a negative thing, but it is really an opportunity to expand our sexual horizons. regardless of disability it can be a good idea to plan ahead for sex"

===Misc===
* ugh, this whole book just keeps saying "in case you talking about sex with people makes them uncomfortable, fire your caretaker and get a new one who is sex-positive". like every scenario the author keeps assuming that the reader shouldn't feel shame about voicing their sexual needs constantly to those around them and that everyone who is uncomfortable with it is just ableist because disabled peoples' sexuality is inherently taboo

=== Opinion/Analysis ===
* really this whole thing is under the assumption that the reader already knows about consent so it isn't really brought up with the perspective that they're the one who should be asking for consent. rather that they're the one people are assuming doesn't consent, when the contrary is true and the reader is DTF always and needs to vocalize it
* For a quick summary of the general lessons that the book takes away, it emphasizes how it's important to take away taboos with people who are disabled and dependent on a caregiver who want sex, and it emphasizes breaking that taboo and getting comfortable asking for help achieving orgasm. One part of the book at the beginning says that there's too much taboo about who your partner is and "god forbid it be someone much older than you". "For some people it won’t be feasible to see and touch all parts of their bodies. If you require twenty-four-hour assistance you may never have someone willing to hold a mirror to see what your clitoris looks like. You may not feel comfortable even asking for that help." "What supports will you need to have in place in case you need to deal with things that come up during your experience? You may have overwhelming feelings that you don’t know how to cope with. Do you have someone you can talk with about these strong feelings or memories? If you don’t have a friend, family member, or caregiver with whom you can hash things out, or some other way that you work through difficult things in your life..."

User:Cwcvillepharmacy

2021-10-19T04:17:45Z

Cwcvillepharmacy: Created page with "I'm the Cwcville resident Drug Lord. I make sure Sonichu gets his Viagra for the front, and hemorrhoid cream for the back. There isn't enough antipsychotics in the world tha..."

I'm the Cwcville resident Drug Lord.

I make sure Sonichu gets his Viagra for the front, and hemorrhoid cream for the back.

There isn't enough antipsychotics in the world that can fix what Chris did.

Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability

2021-10-19T04:10:48Z

Cwcvillepharmacy:

Talk:Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability

2021-10-19T04:03:25Z

Cwcvillepharmacy: Brainstorming book article organization

Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability

2021-10-19T04:00:28Z

Cwcvillepharmacy: Initial placeholder - relevant book quotes to come in discussion section

File:Ultimate-guide-to-sex-and-disability-cover.jpg

2021-10-19T03:45:11Z

Cwcvillepharmacy: