Talk:Vivitheg's AIM chat

CWCSonichu: Well, I feel stupid. VIVItheG: chris VIVItheG: you can't just write that off as "i feel stupid" VIVItheG: you really have to look at what you said to her CWCSonichu: well, I do right now feel stupid. stupid and blind of obvious things. VIVItheG: What do YOU think turned her away from you? VIVItheG: I want to know what YOU think VIVItheG: this is the only way I can help you VIVItheG: If I tell you what I think, that won't help you VIVItheG: because we can have completely different answers

What difference does it make? He told her he felt stupid for doing something, so instead of going with that and introducing him the important fact that it's okay to feel stupid when you're learning something new, she starts pumping him for information which is useless to him. I'm not saying she or anyone has any obligation to help him, but don't say that trying to help him is "like fighting a wall" when no one's never even really thought about what's actually going on in his head in the first place. She put him on the defensive from the start. Fuckatruck 11:20, 30 May 2009 (CEST)